Me and my LDR boyfriend have been together for 9 months now. We tell each other everything.
Today, I met up with a guy from my school. I've known him since preschool and I trust him. We met at the high school parking lot 5 minutes from my house. I sat in his car for a while and we talked innocently. All of a sudden he said "I called you cuz I wanna see if it's true."
I said "if what's true?"
"if it's true that black girls are better at oral"
(I'm mixed black and white)
I was disgusted. I went to get out of the car and he grabbed my hand and pulled me back. He unzipped his pants and VERY AGGRESSIVELY put my hand on his "downstairs." I tore my hand away and just stared at him. I couldn't believe he had done that. I finally opened the car door and he grabbed my face and kissed
me. I moved my head in time so he could only kiss my cheek. And I left. That was the end of it. He wanted me to completely have sex with him and I didn't even wanna touch him.
What I need to know is if I should tell my boyfriend. My best friend said I shouldn't because it'll only cause problems. There's nothing he can do except maybe call him and cuss him out, which would only make it worse. I don't really consider what happened cheating on him, but I feel really guilty even though it wasn't my fault.
I can't tell my parents because I wasn't supposed to meet up with this guy anyway. I can't tell the police because I could have left. The door was unlocked and right there. I could have left but for some stupid reason I didn't go.
Should I tell him?
Today, I met up with a guy from my school. I've known him since preschool and I trust him. We met at the high school parking lot 5 minutes from my house. I sat in his car for a while and we talked innocently. All of a sudden he said "I called you cuz I wanna see if it's true."
I said "if what's true?"
"if it's true that black girls are better at oral"
(I'm mixed black and white)
I was disgusted. I went to get out of the car and he grabbed my hand and pulled me back. He unzipped his pants and VERY AGGRESSIVELY put my hand on his "downstairs." I tore my hand away and just stared at him. I couldn't believe he had done that. I finally opened the car door and he grabbed my face and kissed
me. I moved my head in time so he could only kiss my cheek. And I left. That was the end of it. He wanted me to completely have sex with him and I didn't even wanna touch him.
What I need to know is if I should tell my boyfriend. My best friend said I shouldn't because it'll only cause problems. There's nothing he can do except maybe call him and cuss him out, which would only make it worse. I don't really consider what happened cheating on him, but I feel really guilty even though it wasn't my fault.
I can't tell my parents because I wasn't supposed to meet up with this guy anyway. I can't tell the police because I could have left. The door was unlocked and right there. I could have left but for some stupid reason I didn't go.
Should I tell him?
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