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    finally the decision for my petition has been approved..

    why I feel this way?...the much visa petition has been approved and yet my SO doesnt show any reaction at all?...why?,,we've been waiting for it for a long time...why he has no reaction at all..is he not happy?,.not excited or what I dont know...
    Is there anyone of you there can give me any piece of advice,.im worried,.i dont know what will I feel,..why?,.what's going on with my SO?...
    dianelovesjeremy

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    I have been through the process and it happened to me with my now husband. I think it is just such a long process and having to do so many things for it, that by the time it comes its just whatever. I know for me though I was super excited to finally be done and just look forward to him coming and he was kinda just neutral. But you want them to show the same excitement as you do! Is he moving or are you? It may be a bitter sweet thing if he is moving. I think that is how it was for my husband,he was happy to be coming here to start our lives but also sad to be leaving all he knows back home like his family,friends,and his home. Just hang in there I have been there and know the situation. congrats too on the approval, I know the stressed and how long it takes!!!

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      #3
      I showed a similar response to my fiance and it was not because I didn't care, it was because I knew it was only one hurdle and more time and hurdles to go. We are STILL passing those hurdles and I can't let myself be truely excited until I pick him up at the airport (If and when that happens )
      Ann

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        Originally posted by dynomitegurl View Post
        I have been through the process and it happened to me with my now husband. I think it is just such a long process and having to do so many things for it, that by the time it comes its just whatever. I know for me though I was super excited to finally be done and just look forward to him coming and he was kinda just neutral. But you want them to show the same excitement as you do! Is he moving or are you? It may be a bitter sweet thing if he is moving. I think that is how it was for my husband,he was happy to be coming here to start our lives but also sad to be leaving all he knows back home like his family,friends,and his home. Just hang in there I have been there and know the situation. congrats too on the approval, I know the stressed and how long it takes!!!
        actually im the one who is moving...not him...we'll still im so thankful to god,..now a few more steps and were finally together!...thanks !
        dianelovesjeremy

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