Just need some motivation

[Connor]

Hey guys,
I'm just kinda feeling down today.. Lately my SO haven't be able to talk near as much as we used to, and its gonna be like this for a while. Its been pretty hard on me, and her too, lately. She is supposed to come visit in October, but we still aren't positive it will happen. Her coming out is something that we can both REALLY hold on to and give us that extra boost to keep on. I'm afraid she wont be able to, and i'm afraid of how that will affect us. i really, truly, and completely love her. with everything i am, everything i have, and will have. I have everything set on marrying her. Its only a year and a half away. I haven't lost any feelings for her, at all. In fact, lately i've been seeming to fall in love with her all over ag

- Scratch that all.. She just texted me and told me how much she loves me.. I'm not a wuss by any means (i hope..), but it made me cry. A lot. I really love this girl..
I hope that all of your SOs make you feel the way she makes me feel. She's an amazing girl. Shes everything i've ever wanted, and that i've waited my whole life for. If i ever start having doubts, someone slap me, and point me back to this.

Sorry for the choppy post Thanks to all that take the time to read and even more to those that want to comment still.

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Lately my SO and I **

[Sierra]

I'm about to have to start talking to my boyfriend less because he's making a major career change. Going from two years of talking all day, every day to talking when he can is going to be hard. I'm also worried that this is going to cut back on the time that we get to spend with each other, which is devastating to me. Long distance relationships aren't easy by any means...

I plan no taking the extra time that I'll have and focusing on me. Working out more, keeping things clean all the time, reading books I've been meaning to get to ... basically keeping myself busy. Hopefully that'll keep my mind off the changes in my relationship and keep us strong.

Good luck to you, I hope it works out, just keep the faith.

[Connor]

I've been doing those same things actually. Yeah, things are tough.. but i know i can get through this. I know exactly how you feel, so i know you can get through this too.
I think to myself "This is my bestfriend, and has been for 3 years. I'm totally in love with her. AND she meets every, extremely high, standard i've ever had. This girl is perfect, and if that means not always being able to be with her 24/7, so be it. The time we do get to spend together, in person or through the phone, makes everything ok. I'm stronger than the distance is far."
Good luck to you as well.

[Sierra]

That's how I feel too. Sometimes we have to deal with parts of our relationship that make it hard, but you know what, it's worth pushing through. I know my boyfriend is worth it. Just gotta remember to keep my head on straight.

[Connor]

That's how I feel too. Sometimes we have to deal with parts of our relationship that make it hard, but you know what, it's worth pushing through. I know my boyfriend is worth it. Just gotta remember to keep my head on straight.

We all get scared of the distance, but you can do it. I know exactly how you feel right now. I kinda think about it like this: We fell in love states apart, that means something. We became closer than anyone close to us, that means something. We MUST be stronger than anyone else, because not many people could remain so close and faithful this far apart. The distance is just a test, to see if marriage is even possible, so we have no choice but to make it through. We CAN make it through because we're strong and meant to be together.

[Lina]

We all get scared of the distance, but you can do it.

I agree with Connor on this
LDRs are genuinely more difficult than a CDR and more challenging, but the fact that you love each other (side note: I get teary, too, when my SO texts me out of the blue just to say he loves me, haha) and you even made plans to be together in the future means it has all chances to work out. ^^

[nic&matt]

I'm glad you got that reassuring text you needed. Everyone goes through nights like this but there's a reason why you're in love with that person and it's those moments where you just know
We'll be here to slap you when you start feeling like that, don't worry. We got your back

[leonsfangirl]

We'll be here to slap you when you start feeling like that, don't worry. We got your back

That!!!

My SO has just got a new job which means we won't be able to talk during the week like we used to but if i have to miss him more to bring us closer to closing the distance then so be it. The distance wont last forever and when you get through it, it will all be worth it.

[MusicalSoul22]

I love those times where you are doubting things and then its like as if on cue they say something that erases all of that. My so and I had a really bad night few days ago and a couple days later I said something about if he has science or english hw im his girl and he goes " what do you mean...you are always my girl." That made me ssmile from ear to ear.

[Yaaamiii]

those nights of doubt are the worst! Ugh I've had too many of those to count. But you'll make it through

[Connor]

Thank you all
This site really helps with so much.

[Shaylon]

I love you Connor.. So so much.

[Connor]

I'll always love you Shaylon.