I do not have children, but I can tell you that they deserve alot more than what you and you boyfriend could give them. I grew up with parents that waited, that had the means to love me...and I can tell you that in my neighborhood I was the only one. I saw those other kids, and I saw how much they envied me and I would NEVER wish that on a child. Having stable loving parents is the greatest gift I was given...and you would be willingly and knowingly bringing your child into the world knowing there is a good chance they will not have that...its selfish.
However, if you are thinking about yourself and only yourself I will put it in terms you may listen to. You will lose your figure, boobs will change (not usually for the better), and if you and your boyfriend do not work out you will be looking at having one hell of a time finding another man around your age willing to take on a kid. Just, NO, if you are serious....please reconsider.
However, if you are thinking about yourself and only yourself I will put it in terms you may listen to. You will lose your figure, boobs will change (not usually for the better), and if you and your boyfriend do not work out you will be looking at having one hell of a time finding another man around your age willing to take on a kid. Just, NO, if you are serious....please reconsider.
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