So I'm 16 and I'm going to be graduating early next year in June. My boyfriend has been talking about possibly moving here maybe within the next year. My mother has been telling and bitching at me the past few days to think about college, and I really want to do Diagnostic Medical Sonography. Bad thing is, I live in Ohio and the closest college to me is an hour and a half away! So I've been stressing like crazy trying to figure out what to do and my boyfriend has been stressing too.
He keeps saying how he honestly hates it in Florida and wouldn't mind moving here- but we just got in a bit of an argument earlier because I was freaking out saying how am I supposed to move there if I can't get into college right away. And his response "Well babe how do you expect me to just move there?" So obviously that upset me. Of course I'm being kind of selfish and telling him I would love for him to move here and after a year or two move back to Florida once we start saving money together. But him saying that just was like a punch to the stomach.
How does he expect ME to move THERE?
It's so much stress and I just really wish there was no distance because it's killing me. I love him so much that I would never leave him but sometimes I just wish I could because the distance is so hard and stressful.
I have no idea what I'm planning on doing or what's going to happen. Or what college I should go to or if I should just wait and go to Florida or what.. But he is right, how is he just going to get up and move here? Although he's been the one talking about moving here within the next few months or even this year.
How can I handle all of this stress? I feel like my head is going to explode!!
He keeps saying how he honestly hates it in Florida and wouldn't mind moving here- but we just got in a bit of an argument earlier because I was freaking out saying how am I supposed to move there if I can't get into college right away. And his response "Well babe how do you expect me to just move there?" So obviously that upset me. Of course I'm being kind of selfish and telling him I would love for him to move here and after a year or two move back to Florida once we start saving money together. But him saying that just was like a punch to the stomach.
How does he expect ME to move THERE?
It's so much stress and I just really wish there was no distance because it's killing me. I love him so much that I would never leave him but sometimes I just wish I could because the distance is so hard and stressful.
I have no idea what I'm planning on doing or what's going to happen. Or what college I should go to or if I should just wait and go to Florida or what.. But he is right, how is he just going to get up and move here? Although he's been the one talking about moving here within the next few months or even this year.
How can I handle all of this stress? I feel like my head is going to explode!!
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