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    #1

    I need some help!

    Ok, so my boyfriend left last monday, and I won't find out until Friday when he will see me again. He said he will see me between Sunday-Saturday, but he won't know the exact day until he gets his work schedule on Friday. Anyway, I just hope I see him Sunday or Monday, because I don't know if I can make it another week. My family life is very stressful right now. I live with my mom and dad and they are having some problems with medicine and my dad doesn't handle stress that well. Sometimes he drinks, and I think he is drinking now. The last time he drank was in September but luckily it was only a couple days until my BF was coming so I felt like I could handle it well. Now, I have to wait until Friday to find out when my BF will be back, and i just pray that he will say he will come after work on Sunday and stay until Tuesday morning. It is just so nervewracking, because this is his last week training (because he started the job last Monday), and I just hope he doesn't pick up more hours after this week.
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    #2
    Are you able to go see him? Even if he is working, maybe staying at his place right now would be a good idea since home is too stressful at the moment?

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      #3
      gah! I have to stop accidentally posting with the admin account...

      - Michelle

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        #4
        I can understand things are easier to deal with when you have the support of your loved one. However, now is a great time to find ways to deal with stress and bad situation on your own as well. Being able to stand on your own when you must is a very attractive quality in a person, but it can be hard to attain. You ARE stronger than you think, and can deal with whatever life throws your way. All you need to do is take a deep breath, and work at it. Then the times you DO have your SO to lean on will be that much more special because you and he will know you don't need to lean on him but that you want to. I hope this makes some kind of sense... My brain is stuck on Accounting homework UGH!

        Just know that no matter what you can handle it all until he gets there.... and be sure to use all your reasources to do so (family, friends, this site, anyone you trust to vent to and/or for advice). *hugs* hope things ease up very soon!

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          #5
          No, I'm not able to stay at his place. He lives 2hrs away and I don't drive at the moment.

          I hope things start easing up soon too. And it is hard to stay strong on my own. I get so overwhelmed at times.

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            #6
            Is there a way you can stay at his place for part of a week or...what? I mean, I know he's 2 hours away, but is there a way you can get there anyway?

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              #7
              I can understand you feeling frustrated, but hold on if you can't see him sooner. It's difficult as hell, but it is do-able. If it's at all possible, I'd say go for what everyone else is saying and try to go there? If nothing is arranged, remember that we're all here to support you as well.

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                #8
                Maybe your boyfriend could drive to pick you up and bring you to his house and then he could drive you back? My SO has done that before and it works out pretty well.

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                  #9
                  Well, I go to school Monday-Thursday, and he works two jobs now. Like, saturdays he works at DJ shows and he works at a supermarket about 24 hours a week....oh I just have to hold on, but it is so damn hard, especially since stuff is going on here now. If I make it until Friday I will be good.

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                    #10
                    Can you take a bus or something? Is there a greyhound terminal anywhere nearby? It's nice to be able to know that you can go see him when you want and not have to depend on him. Part of your stress may just be from feeling helpless that you can't see him when you want.

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                      #11
                      Michelle, that could be part of the reason. Yeah, there is a Greyhound terminal downtown. I just don't have the money or the time to go to his place. Since I have school 4 days a week and then i study during the weekend. The biggest cause of my stress is that I have to wait until Friday so he can tell me when he will see me again. Its only 2 days away, which makes me feel better, but I've been waiting since last Monday. He promised me he will see me sometime this upcoming week, I just hope it is Sunday, LOL.

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