what everybody else has said, if he is who he says he is then he would have showed you who he was on webcam very early on. and if hes gonna throw a bitch fit and be a drama queen and block you i agree with everybody else.....you can do better then him.
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Be careful with this guy please, I dont think he is who he says... And there are a lot of crazy people using internet to harm others. Protect yourself and use this experience to learn from it, next time be more suspicious and pay atention to the red flags. Dont lose your time with guys like that, you deserve better!
You are young, you have time to meet the love of your life, dont worry because that person will appear in your life
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I know it hurts... I know you want to talk to him and find out WHY he did this, I imagine you're desperate to understand what was behind it. I imagine you want more than anything to believe that his face is the only thing he lied about.
I'm a romantic and when I fall in love I fall HARD- and those are the things that would likely be going through my mind.
I ask you seriously to step outside of your emotion and examine the situation... to set aside your desire to connect with your love and understand why he did this. This is bigger than that...
This person has given you a false persona. There are a few possible reasons someone might do that, and each one should be a warning sign to run the other way.
He wanted you to become attracted and attached to his image as a model/actor. He intentionally reeled you in under false pretenses. Please don't assume that he was truthful about everything, or ANYthing, else he has told you.
Even IF his intentions were innocent enough- maybe he just wanted your attention and thought that a pretty face and a story was the best way to get it- then building a relationship based on deceipt and fabrication and living it as if it were true is to me a HUGE sign of psychological issues and reality disorder. It would also explain why he freaks out, becomes angry, and attempts to sever contact whenever his fantasy is threatened... and also explains why he always comes back after awhile, because he can't live without it.
PLEASE beware... this is nothing you want to become involved with, or try to work out with him, or try to fix/understand about him. He is NOT right. The bottom line is that this will NEVER, ever be a healthy and rewarding relationship for you.
Take the pain and heartbreak now... the chances are high that in doing so you are saving yourself 10x the heartbreak down the road if (when) this turns ugly.
I'm so sorry to sound tough... but I'm afraid that your emotion and love for this person could be clouding your judgement. It probably would if it were me, my heart always seems to overrule my head. *hugs* Please listen to the very sound advice that has been offered to you in this thread- do not contact this man.We collided and fell out of nothingness... scattering stars like dust
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