am i really long distance?!

[HollzHeartsChris]

No matter if you're 50 miles apart, it's still long distance and since you joined this website, it just goes to prove you are You're just luckier than some of us on this site who are in LDRs: you can see your SO quite a bit compared to some. I'm 5100 miles from my SO, it'd be awesome to just pop up nearly every weekend to see him haha
Like michy said, jump in and join in! No need to be shy xD

[hxcbreakdance]

I basically consider long distance to be - if you can't say "Hey, what are you doing tonight? Wanna go to the movies?" you are probably in a LDR.

Lol what a great definition!

[Sunbeam]

You're still LD.
I only see my boy once or twice a year; but even if I could see him every other weekend, it'd still be hard to leave.
Welcome to LFAD

[alw83]

I agree you are still LD and just because you happen to be lucky enough to see your SO more often doesn't take away from the fact that you don't get to be around each other whenever you want. Please stick around!

[blferguson1s]

My SO and I are around 110-120 miles apart dependeing on if I'm at home or at school. We try to spend the weekend together every 3ish weeks depending on his job, me visiting family, and my fraternity schedule. It's still long distance even though we see each other a lot more often than others. I still miss him every day, and I still cry every time we say goodbye even when I know it's only for a couple of weeks.

[Ms.Justine]

Yes, you are definitely long distance. If you don't live in the same general area and see eachother at least a few times a week, you are long distance! Just because others have longer distances and time gaps between visits to deal with doesn't diminish that fact. LDRs are hard, no matter the distance between the couple involved.

There's lots of good advice and things you'll be able to relate to on here. Stick around!

My thoughts exactly! My SO lives in the same city as me and when he returns we'll be in a close distance relationship again. But even though it's only temporary we still go through the obstacles that others in LDR go through. Please stay on the site, you'll get a lot of helpful insight. Why do you live 100 miles apart from another may I ask?