Hard Time Moving on from Breakup.

[archangel]

Its been almost two months since everything fell apart and I still have feelings for her even though after all the shit she put me through. I know, I know... by now I shouldn't be worrying about this anymore. But it bugs me so much. I accepted her for her faults yet she couldn't accept me for me. Then on to top of off when she goes to S.Korea she meets some guy who sweet talks her while we are going through a rough situation. Its like she promised she wouldn't cheat and then, well she does... as if to punish me. We had such a good time when we where together in person and that is thanks to me going against my parents to see her, 13000 km away for a total cost of $3400 over 9 days. Yeah and she still breaks up.
I did however, talk to my friends and then her friends about what happened between us and I got a lot of support saying i deserve better. I even forwarded our last two emails to one of her close friends and told her to pas it on to her other close friends so they knew what happened. She after I did that remove me from her friends on facebook... which I later found out was actually blocking me. So now you block your most recent boyfriends; but you always rather to make up with them and move on. I really think in my opinion that she is being manipulated by her 'new' guy, since he is showering her with gifts.
It just bugs me... I want her back, I don't want her...
I want us to be on good terms, I don't want to see her for a long time...
I want to move on or... well, move on.

Its just the last two months my moody has literally up and down. I've got to bed angry and woke up angry only to calm down towards the late afternoon. All of this is still affecting my emotionally. I don't have that much of an appetite in the morning. Ugh, this bugs me emotionally, and making everything since my mind keeps on wandering during the day about trying to move on or trying to calm myself.

Any advice would be appreciated.

[folclor]

; ^ ; *huggles Chris* I'm so sorry for you! I had no idea this stuff was going on. I really can't give you advice on how to get over her but if you ever need someone to talk to you should still have my Skype name. I'm on a lot of the time and I'd love to listen and talk to you about it if you need someone to listen. I'm so sorry, I know you loved her a lot. I will pray that things get better for you.

[Sharon Q]

I'm so sorry that happened to you.

In a situation like this its best to keep busy,
distract yourself from her and go out and meet new people.

You will find better trust me.

Also its okay to brake down if you need to. It may even help you feel better afterwards
Also if you need to talk about it, feel free to message me.

Things will get better with time.

[Moon]

Sometimes when a person comes along and affects our lives deeply and profoundly, and then they're inexplicably gone, it takes a very long time to get over that. Two months isn't enough time, you need to take it easy on yourself and not try rushing things. I had something similar happen to me once, and it took me a whole year to get over it and find myself again. The reason she blocked you isn't because of that guy, it's because you forwarded those emails, you broke her trust and burned that bridge, you can't go back from there, y'know? I would have done the same. But you live and you learn and you move forward, and then take those lessons into your next relationship. I know it hurts and it feels like it'll never stop, but gradually it does, there is no way to do it faster, you just have to get through it and you can do that. If she strayed from you so easily, just with a few pretty words, you have to ask yourself if that's someone you really want to be with anyway.

Be kind to yourself and allow yourself to grieve, once you do that you'll begin to heal. Good luck to you.

[Silencedsongs]

I can tell you right now... I'm the one who broke up with my ex-b/f. It's not because we cheated or what not, but we did have other issues. It's not even been a week, and I feel such a weight on my heart that it's almost overwhelming at times. You need to give it time.

Two months is not enough.

[archangel]

; ^ ; *huggles Chris* I'm so sorry for you! I had no idea this stuff was going on. I really can't give you advice on how to get over her but if you ever need someone to talk to you should still have my Skype name. I'm on a lot of the time and I'd love to listen and talk to you about it if you need someone to listen. I'm so sorry, I know you loved her a lot. I will pray that things get better for you.

Thanks Mariam

I'm so sorry that happened to you.

In a situation like this its best to keep busy,
distract yourself from her and go out and meet new people.

You will find better trust me.

Also its okay to brake down if you need to. It may even help you feel better afterwards
Also if you need to talk about it, feel free to message me.

Things will get better with time.

Thanks Sharon

Sometimes when a person comes along and affects our lives deeply and profoundly, and then they're inexplicably gone, it takes a very long time to get over that. Two months isn't enough time, you need to take it easy on yourself and not try rushing things. I had something similar happen to me once, and it took me a whole year to get over it and find myself again. The reason she blocked you isn't because of that guy, it's because you forwarded those emails, you broke her trust and burned that bridge, you can't go back from there, y'know? I would have done the same. But you live and you learn and you move forward, and then take those lessons into your next relationship. I know it hurts and it feels like it'll never stop, but gradually it does, there is no way to do it faster, you just have to get through it and you can do that. If she strayed from you so easily, just with a few pretty words, you have to ask yourself if that's someone you really want to be with anyway.

Be kind to yourself and allow yourself to grieve, once you do that you'll begin to heal. Good luck to you.

I forwarded the emails (only to one of her friends), after 3 weeks we were apart since she refused to tell them about what happened to us. I also told her that I just wanted to be friends and nothing more, so I am not planning on walking back over that bridge.

I can tell you right now... I'm the one who broke up with my ex-b/f. It's not because we cheated or what not, but we did have other issues. It's not even been a week, and I feel such a weight on my heart that it's almost overwhelming at times. You need to give it time.

Two months is not enough.

I realize two months isn't enough and i agree with you both, it is just some days it weights on me more than others. Talking about does help and all, but besides keeping myself busy (I am busy with college and work)... ummm could i be too busy? Like not enough time in the day to take time out to speak my mind?

Thank you all, this all helps.....

[HollzHeartsChris]

I can understand and appreciate how hard it is for someone who's made such an impact on your life to suddenly disappear from it. I'm sorry you're having to go through this pain. What I will say is time will heal your wounds and you just need an amount of it to overcome everything. You will find someone out there's waiting for you, someone who won't mistreat you, and when the time is right, you'll know. Stay strong

[archangel]

I can understand and appreciate how hard it is for someone who's made such an impact on your life to suddenly disappear from it. I'm sorry you're having to go through this pain. What I will say is time will heal your wounds and you just need an amount of it to overcome everything. You will find someone out there's waiting for you, someone who won't mistreat you, and when the time is right, you'll know. Stay strong

Thanks HollzHeartsChris