When did you KNOW...

[LeilaniJoi]

that you were meant to be?

For me, for as long as I can remember I have had this dream. I don't always remember dreams but when i do they have special significance for me. Without getting too weird about it if I remember a dream then I will be in that situation at some point and that's as far as I'll go in explanation. But for as long as I can remember I dreamed I was in a boat with a man. I could see the back of his head, dark hair and though I never saw his face I knew he had dark eyes and I knew within this dream that we were "together." When I met Daniel online and we started discussing physicalities.. he let it slip one night that he was part Indian. At this point it dawned on me that he had the dark eyes and hair of the man in this dream. Well, not long after this the dream returned and even though we were still just an online thing, the man in front of me turned and it was Daniel. To say it was revealing to me would be an understatement. I woke up right at that time, about 3:30 am to a text from him that said "I love you" and I knew.

Don't judge.. I know it's corny but it's true. That moment in time removed all doubts I had about where I needed to be and I haven't had one regret. So when was your "moment?"

[Ms.Justine]

Wow that's so crazy! I have similar things that occur to me when I dream...That's so strange. Well me and my SO met online as well to begin with...but to be honest I felt like I met him before and continued to have these strange deja vu's...So when we started to talk it felt as though he had been my friend for years. In fact, on our first date we went to a martini bar and the bar tender thought we had been a couple for years...AND IT WAS OUR FIRST DATE!

Now I don't know if we're meant to be...only the future knows that. But I do feel that my SO has a place in my life and I don't want him to go anywhere, anytime soon

[kiara_silver]

I don't think I can pin exact;y when I knew he was the one, but there was a time where thought i was going to lose him, and it physichally hurt and i cried. I got a chest pain, and, it just confirmed to me how much I rally loved and cared for him. Was also scary, because he had that much effect on me, but made me relize i couldn't ever let him go.

[beckychan]

I don't even know if there was a moment. I guess it's a series of events. We never expected to keep on talking longer than maybe two weeks (considering we met on xbox and only talked and played together on xbox) but we just kept on going and going. We ended up going out and we even just saw eachother this weekend! The fact that we're still together against all odds to me is enough proof that we're meant to be.

[Sharon Q]

I fell for my SO really fast. About a two or three months after dating I knew I wanted to stay with him It felt as if I was meant to be with him because we were so compatible.

[snow_girl]

As lame as it sounds, I knew as soon as I walked in to a room and saw him before we even talked I knew that by the end of the night I would be and that he was the one.

[lucybelle]

On our second date he took me out to dinner and we had appetizers, meals, a whole bottle of wine AND dessert. That's when I thought "not letting this one go!!" (I love to eat!)

[nic&matt]

My SO and I were good friends first for a long time and I never really thought about it. He claims that he knew the night he finally told me he liked me.
My "moment" was also a string of events but I really started considering it when we were with a bunch of his family friends and watching their kids. He was messing around with them and we were all playing games together. It was, I dunno...it was a good moment

[LeilaniJoi]

As lame as it sounds, I knew as soon as I walked in to a room and saw him before we even talked I knew that by the end of the night I would be and that he was the one.

nice feeling isnt it

[blankita719]

When I first fell in love with him back in 1996-1997:
He had taken me out for the day as a favor to his ex and we had his son, who was just under 2 years old with us. He ran into a friend of his that he had not seen in a couple of years, so his friend asked if his son and I were his family and that very minute I wanted him to say yes more than anything I'd ever wanted in the entire world. Instead we both laughed and kind of awkwardly said we were starting to be friends. But it was right then and there that I knew I was meant to be with him.

Of course it did take us many, many years to get it right

[Madge]

When my SO and I met in the airport for the first time after 10 months of emails, skype calls and many plans for this moment. We met in 08 and then I decided to do camp again back in the states in 09 so we decided to met in LA for 2 weeks of fun

As soon as I saw him in the airport I dunno my heart started racing and everything clicked into place

It always feels like this when I see him now at the airport waiting to pick me up

[Sierra]

This is going to sound weird. My boyfriend and I met online and I guess over two years ago now I was in Venice and taking a walk. I remember standing next to the Grand Canal and looking at this church and all of the sudden it hit me like a ton of bricks ... here was this man that I had been spending all the time talking to who actually was my "ideal man". I mean the one that I always wanted and never thought I'd find. It was right then that I knew that if we could meet, and the chemistry was there, we would be together forever.

I actually never thought I'd meet the man of my dreams, but I did, and now we're doing what it takes to make it work. And for the first time in my life -- and I've been engaged before, I actually feel like this relationship is it. I've had my last first kiss.

[LilyChiba]

I'd have to say before we were even together. It was when his bro and sis told me about how he acts when he was talking to me online and playing the 360, as well as how he talked to them about me. I knew pretty much then that if anyone was going to mean this much, it would be him. Especially when it was the smallest of things that used to have me grinning ear to ear. Like the first time he used my real name instead of my screen name, the way I felt when we actually said how we felt, all the way to the first I love yous. Everything he does to show me how he cares makes me know every time.

[HollzHeartsChris]

I don't recall the exact moment when I knew for sure Chris was the one for me, but I think it was when I started to take more notice of his flirting and the fact that he really cared for me. I can't really explain how I knew. I just DID.

[iloveacarpenter]

I remember laying in bed one night soon after we started dating and thinking to myself "Surely, I can't be in love with him this soon. I can't know for sure he's the one yet". Not long after, he drove to my house late one night because he couldn't wait to tell me he loved me. He was so nervous but I had no reserves telling him that I loved him back. I knew pretty soon that he was the one i was going to marry, but i kept denying it to myself. Haha!

Keep in mind he told me he loved me after 17 days of dating and we are usually both pretty rational people