arguments suck!!!

[Caitlin2009]

Me and Denise dont argue all that much probably like once or twice a month, and i know its healthy to do especially with couples who are meant to be together, but i still hate it! Because like today we argued for like a few minutes because she hasent been online as much(once a day lately, instead of 2-3 times a day like it was a few months ago) alright call me very spoiled and i know once in awhile especially with the career field we both plan on getting into is gonna sometimes be where we dont get to talk alot if were away, but i kinda argued about that and a few other things cause i felt i was being ignored or pushed aside....O_o yeaaah that wasent the case at all! Sometimes i have a habit of over thinking stuff so we had a little argument, and i made her cry yet again I did that a few months ago and i promised i woudlnt do that again and i ended up doing it ARRRRRRG!!!! We made up and were fine now, but i just hate doing that! It's added on to that fact that we see each other in a few months or so and i want to see her bad so i end up being grumpy because its not coming fast enough! But anytime we argue we always say goodnight on a positive note but theres always a cloud hanging over until the next day....bleh i just hate it!

[Mio]

I think it's funny that at a moment you are angry and want to tell your SO how you feel and how hurt you feel about the situation, and then when you talk to them about it you feel totally guilty and feel that you are being to demanding or hostile, lol. At least that's my case. But yeah, arguments suck!!

[William]

We always emerge stronger after an argument, and it seems the more serious the argument, the stronger we emerge.
Like last monday, we were on the verge of breaking up, but we talked about it for two days, and now everything is better than it has ever been before.
Yes, arguments suck, but they have their ups for me.

[Caitlin2009]

Oh yeah thats defiantly me lol, im so angry and pissy when i tell her, the minute she gets angry and jumps into the argument as well i feel so guilty and feel like a jackass because whatever the argument is its not what i thought it really was, meaning the reason i was angry i shouldnt have been because it wasent like that at all and i shouldnt have been angry and thought what i thought to begin with. thank god its only once or twice a month but still i hate it!

[Caitlin2009]

We always emerge stronger after an argument, and it seems the more serious the argument, the stronger we emerge.
Like last monday, we were on the verge of breaking up, but we talked about it for two days, and now everything is better than it has ever been before.
Yes, arguments suck, but they have their ups for me.

its weird i do feel that anytime for certain things even when we argue i feel like it brings us closer, its weird but i guesse its because we love each other to tell each other whats on our minds and even though we argue we still love each other and no matter what we'll always be together even though we argue!

[xsomanymilesx]

arguments = horrible.

[lunamea]

I find it funny how you can get into arguments over nothing at all and then another day, without ever really having resolved things, you're perfectly fine with the world again, also for no apparent reason. That's what happened to me today: woke up from some nice dreams in a really good mood and had a nice convo with my husband, even though we both know that we're gonna argue again about the things that have not been resolved. However, most of the times I think we argue about little things like what you described, too, and even though sometimes these fights happen because there are more serious issues at work, usually it's just stupid small things that set you off because you're in a foul mood to begin with.

And yeah, I guess every fight you "survive" as a couple without breaking up is a reason to celebrate!