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    #1

    Is it weird to feel like this?

    Ok..... well basically, some times i dont miss him....

    when im working, or going to open days at uni, or with friends (specifically at a sleepover), i dont have that feeling of longing....

    when im alone and upset, and need a shoulder, or he is feeling upset or ill, i miss him unbearably much.

    then when i feel like that during work, i feel bad... because then i stop doing some homework to talk to him through skype, and all those feelings come back and i think "oh my god why didnt i feel like that whilst working..."

    am i being weird? idk what it means.... i love him to pieces, so why dont i miss him at some points in time?
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    #2
    Hey, isn't it a good sign that you don't constantly miss him? My SO means the world to me but I'm just glad that most days I'm not longing for her 24/7, that would be way too exhausting. I think it's natural and good for you to have a "pause" from missing him while you are occupied with something else. Activities with friends, studying or work or just your own quality time is important for anyone in an LDR, and it's alright to enjoy them without paying attention to your SO. If I were you, I'd be more worried if I kept missing him all the time even when I was having fun or trying to focus on work. He is there in your heart day and night, not missing him all day long doesn't mean you don't care.
    "Everyone smiles in the same language."

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      #3
      ok... thankyou i just started feeling so bad that i wasnt missing him just now.... we were on skype and he was feeling really ill and it really hit me how much i missed him, and sometimes even when with friends i cant move coz of missing him (its still early days).

      thankyou xx

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        #4
        Not at all, it's perfectly normal! =] I get like that when I'm busy with labs, when I'm at school or when I'm with friends. He's always on my mind, but when I'm busy he's in the back of my mind. I'm glad that I don't constantly feel that longing and missing him, because it'd make this whole thing 100x worse imho. Of course, once I have days where I don't have much to keep my mind occupied or keeping myself busy, then I really feel it and miss him a lot. Usually those days are my weekends. =\ But, it's nice to miss him too because I feel lucky to have someone that I love so much that I can miss like that.

        "Do I love you? My God, if your love were a grain of sand, mine would be a universe of beaches."

        Like a drum, my heart never stops beating for you.

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          #5
          thats very true. weekends are very hard at times.

          thanks for the reassurance x

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            #6
            It's not weird in the slightest because when you're busy and preoccupied, you don't think so much about what's bothering you. Infact, it's best for you because you don't end up feeling sad and you don't concentrate on the bad things. Keep yourself busy! That's the best thing Of course there's nothing wrong with missing him either. It's all good.

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