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    i don't know if i can do this anymore :(

    I seriously do not know what to do anymore. My boyfriend and I are separated for at least another month and a half and we barely talk. We used to talk all the time and I tried telling him that I would appreciate it if we talked for just a few minutes more and he hung up on me. Then he turns off all forms of communication. I have talked to all of my friends and they have told me that he is not the right guy for me anymore. I do not know what to do anymore. He told me he would always be there for me no matter what. Today I fainted in the hallway. Not a fun time. I call him to tell him and he snaps back at me and says i'm busy. I was bawling my eyes out. I don't know what to do anymore
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    Just do what you feel is right...
    Close together or far apart, you're forever in my heart.

    I love you soooo much Luke

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      #3
      It sounds like you already know what is the best thing to do. If things arent really working anymore and not for lack of trying... then it may be time to let it go. It hard but it may be for the best. Im sorry hun.
      Got together Jan 3, 2011~ Closed the Distance March 23, 2012~ Living Together Since June 19 2012~ Future TBD......

      I miss you more than I ever could have believed; and I was prepared to miss you a good deal." ~ Vita Sackville-west

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        #4
        Is there anything going on in his life that could cause a change in his level of commitment? Is he stressed, under pressure, or going through a tough time? If so, it might just be relationship low tide, something that will pass. But if not, it seems like he's deliberately putting distance between the two of you. I don't like that he didn't express concern for your health. No matter how stressed I am or the current state my relationship is in, I'd never be blasé about my SO's health. Fainting isn't a little thing, and his response was pretty damn cold.

        I hate to say it, but sometimes when people want out of a relationship and they're too cowardly to actually break up, they act like jerks until the other person gets fed up and they do the breaking up.

        As to what you can do, all you can really do is try to get him to tell you what's up. If he won't do that, there's not much else you can do. You either decide you don't want to be treated this way and walk, or you decide there is something worth fighting for in your relationship and try to work it out. But it takes two to fix a relationship, and if he's too busy to talk about you fainting... I don't know. Can't fix it if he won't talk to you.

        *hugs*

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          #5
          It's not ok that he thinks he can just hang up on you. Has this happened gradually, or did he suddenly grow distant? I don't know if maybe something is going on on his end that is stressing him out, but you don't deserve to be treated that way It's hard enough just missing someone.

          I think it would be best if you could really explain to him what is going on, and explain to him that you're at the end of your rope. After that, if he shows no signs of improving, let him go. Life's too short to waste on people who don't treat you well. Every guy who falls in love with you will pledge to be there for you, but only one of them will see that through. People change, and sometimes it seems really unfair, but it will work out. Good luck.

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            #6
            :'( x 10000000000000000 i sooo feel for you!!!! and understand :'( i do not know what to tell u. It is not gonna work if things remain this way. If u are strong enough to end it and be without him then just do that. Really

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              #7
              It sounds like you already KNOW what to do...Pardon my French but this guy seems like a complete and total ASSHOLE... I mean seriously? Is he really that inconsiderate and unwilling to make an effort to be with you? I'd say your friends are right on this one. To the left to the left. You'll find someone better.
              .We've Closed the Distance.
              no matter where i am, no matter where you are
              i'll be there when it's over baby - cause i was there from the start
              no matter if i'm near - dont matter if you're far
              all you do is pick the phone up baby & i'll be there when you call

              Whenever you need me, whenever you want me, ♥

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                #8
                Originally posted by Minerva View Post
                I hate to say it, but sometimes when people want out of a relationship and they're too cowardly to actually break up, they act like jerks until the other person gets fed up and they do the breaking up.
                That is SO true.

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                  #9
                  I don't like what this guy is doing to you. I'm sorry, but he's literally being a total jerk. You don't deserve to be treated this way. Try and ask him what made him talk to you like this. Tell him how you feel. I think personally it might be time to let him go. Your friends couldn't be righter.

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