Trying to cope...

[HollzHeartsChris]

I'm trying to deal with something that's happened this morning. I wrote about it in my previous post.

https://members.lovingfromadistance....148#post151148

The last week has seen me go through a lot of physical agony because of a painful chest condition I have. Coupled with that and a stressful week in uni, I'm feeling absolutely dreadful right now.

I'm just looking for some advice/thoughts/tips, anything that'll help me ease the pain. I'm extremely down right now and coping with it is really taking a toll on me.

Any kind words would be much obliged....

[leonsfangirl]

Being so ill on top of this is going to make it harder to deal with. Concentrate on getting better firstly, you cope better when you feel 100%.
Be selfish, do things you enjoy and maybe haven't had tme to do for a long time. Keep your communication with your SO "light" as hard as it may be, try to keep any heavy relationship talk to a minimum for now. Play games together,laugh and joke if you can. I realise thats a huge ask but you can do it (i did with my SO for 2 years roughly). Really hope you feel better soon and your able to sort everything out soon. If you want to talk, feel free to message me.

[beckychan]

I know we all hear this every time we're down, but even at our lowest point there's only one way to go and that's up. Things will get better, no matter how bad it seems right now. They ALWAYS get better.
If you can, call up some friends and take a break from school. Go do something that you've never done before. Some CRAZY! I don't know what you CAN do, but a change of pace is always good for times like these.

[LeilaniJoi]

I agree.. have some YOU time. Do some things you enjoy and can lose yourself in. Focus on getting better so that you are strong enough to cope and pull through...I'll be thinking of you {{ hugs }}

[littlethinktank]

I am really sorry you are feeling so horrible right now Your post this morning really shocked me. It was so unexpected.
Maybe give yourself sometime to be upset - since it's the weekend that wont hurt anybody. But set yourself a deadline after which you"ll try to pick yourself up again. That's how I work through pain and sadness. And I agree with the other girls, have some "me time" and be selfish. I hope you feel better soon!

[Mara]

*Hugs* We're all here for you. Just take some time to focus on yourself. I know it's hard and painful, but you need to take some time for yourself right now. Do the things that bring you joy and make you feel good.

[Bethypoo]

I mean, we can all give you advice but then the end we are not in your position. I would be so upset as you obviously are. Just really focus on what you need to do. There is only so much time that you should wait to see if he comes around but take a break from everything. Regroup. and get back up.