Arrrgg!

[Caitlin2009]

So like i said in the rant thread Denise hurt her back by falling when she got out of the way of the car that almost hit her, I feel horrible because im unable to be there for her and rub her back and hold her normally, it sucks! So for the past couple of days I feel like i've had to litterly walk on eggshells just to talk to her from time to time and i never had to do that before and it really bugs me, I told her that last night and her response was "well you know im in pain, and you know this isnt how i normally act, when im feeling better i wont act like this" which is true she probably wont but that kicked up the running issue with me and its like "Oooo shes acting like that now, better run before it gets any worse!!" arrrrrrggggg!!!! its like give me a fucking break already, she basically hasent really been her cheerful self ever since she hurt her back which i understand, but im missing it big time! We also havent made love in awhile due to things coming up, and her not having a charger for her laptop which has made me really on edge, i know all relationships have a little rough patch but i dont like this not at all

[Mio]

I hope she heals soon and that everything goes back to normal!

[Caitlin2009]

i think that started yesturday, because i made her laugh hysterically which she hasent done in awhile. so at the moment i think things are coming back to the way they were

[Mio]

Good!

[JoMarie]

Its good to get to know the different sides of people. At least shes being honest with you and not hiding her feelings. I'm sure the real her will come back when she feels better. Hang in there.

[garnet]

If you flip this, and you were the one that was hurt, and you were in endless pain and kinda cranky from it, wouldn't it suck for your gf to be getting annoyed with you?

I am just asking this, because I have been in your gfs shoes, and Rane has had to deal with me during hospital stays, medication changes that totally messed up what I acted like, and I appreciate his endless patience with me. So anyway I'm just saying I understand how it sucks for you, you miss your normal gf! But it's also gotta suck for her, and if you are letting any signs of annoyance show, it might make her go farther in the direction you don't want her to go.

I'm glad to read that things are returning to normal. It's hard to be LD and not be able to take care of our partner when they need us. At least, not take care of them the way we wish we could.

[misskatiemarie]

If you flip this, and you were the one that was hurt, and you were in endless pain and kinda cranky from it, wouldn't it suck for your gf to be getting annoyed with you?

I am just asking this, because I have been in your gfs shoes, and Rane has had to deal with me during hospital stays, medication changes that totally messed up what I acted like, and I appreciate his endless patience with me. So anyway I'm just saying I understand how it sucks for you, you miss your normal gf! But it's also gotta suck for her, and if you are letting any signs of annoyance show, it might make her go farther in the direction you don't want her to go.

I'm glad to read that things are returning to normal. It's hard to be LD and not be able to take care of our partner when they need us. At least, not take care of them the way we wish we could.

I agree. Especially with the bold.
Bobby and i have talked to each other after hospital visits and everything. I know I am a tough person to be around sometimes when I'm sick and especially when I'm in pain, although at the same time I'm glad hes seen the other side of me and I'm glad that he can be so supportive.

[Caitlin2009]

Yeah i know, i wasent annoyed with her i was just annoyed that everything bad was happening at once and it was frusterating and i did kinda take it out on her a bit, but things have been resolved big time so its all good