I feel like I'm losing it. The feeling came over me so suddenly that I'm certain it's just "one of those moods" that come with the stress of a LDR. But I think I could do with someone to talk to who understands what it's like to be in a LDR for so long. If anyone's up for it I'd appreciate it. It's mainly things like financial issues, living it different countries, family, time and how will we ever get it done. Thanks.
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I'm here to listen. Some days it really does seem impossible, like it'll never end, like the immigration stuff is insurmountable, like there will never be enough money. Sometimes it makes you want to run away and cry and think you can't do it. But you can. It wont suck forever!Happily married to the little Canadian boy I never thought I'd meet in person
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I'm in too! *hugs*.We've Closed the Distance.no matter where i am, no matter where you are
i'll be there when it's over baby - cause i was there from the start
no matter if i'm near - dont matter if you're far
all you do is pick the phone up baby & i'll be there when you call
Whenever you need me, whenever you want me, ♥
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We are all here. Those moods come and ago as we all know!Got together Jan 3, 2011~ Closed the Distance March 23, 2012~ Living Together Since June 19 2012~ Future TBD......
I miss you more than I ever could have believed; and I was prepared to miss you a good deal." ~ Vita Sackville-west
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If you didn't lose it, you couldn't then own it. You'll get over this particular mood and come back twice as bold and thrice as awesome. You're thinking about this rationally and well you should. You'll come out better for it particularly when backed up by all of the irrational yet thoroughly fantastic stuff such as the love. You have to feel the lows to taste the highs which you probably know already, I just think we all need to hear it sometimes. You'll be okay! Welcome to the human racesigpic
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/gone“There is in every true woman's heart, a spark of heavenly fire, which lies dormant in the broad daylight of prosperity, but which kindles up and beams and blazes in the dark hour of adversity.”
~Washington Irving
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Thanks everyone. Sometimes the reminder that we're in this boat together is helpful. Time lately has felt like it's moving so fast and yet so slow all at once. These moments can freak me out because I don't know what to do or if there is anything that I can do. Every day that passes I know adds one more day to how long we'll have to wait to be together. Before we know it a year has gone by and it feels like we haven't moved forward in terms of getting to the point of just seeing each other. I know once we get over this hurdle the "race" will be a lot easier, but this one struggle has been so hard emotionally. Just trying to keep my head on and not spiraling down into a pit of worry is difficult. I'll try to focus on knowing that it will happen and not so much on when...
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