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    #1

    Need to vent

    Ok Im sorry but I need to vent.
    So last night I was talking to him(the now ex) and after a bit of talking I asked if he wanted to get together tomorrow so we could change our facebook and that. He said he was busy. I didnt mind.

    Anyways cut to now. I went to the shops and as I went back out to my car I saw his car and it wasnt there when i got there. So I thought must be having to deal with work or that so I decided to go back in and see if I could find him. Now I was walking around looking for him, his previous ex(who he is friends with) walks past. Now I first thought HE IS SEEING HER! but then calmed myself down and told myself to think logically that its probably a coincidence. I continued down to a shop to grab something and I saw him and he was with her. I am so gutted. I mean sure we arent dating anymore and they are probably just catching up. Im so hurt. I mean he couldnt even tell me when i asked last night sorry Im catching up with ____ tomorrow. I would have been oh thats cool. He would have seen my car when he arrived and probably me as well. GAH! IM SO PISSED AND UPSET. Im sure im overreacting but my god.

    EDIT: we broke up on tuesday so 3 days ago and have talked a little since then.
    Last edited by Sunnyside193; October 20, 2011, 10:18 PM.
    Tags: pissed, uspet, vent
    #2
    Id be pissed to. But really there is nothing you can do about it at this point if you are broken up. But your feelings are still valid and you are allowed to be hurt.
    Got together Jan 3, 2011~ Closed the Distance March 23, 2012~ Living Together Since June 19 2012~ Future TBD......

    I miss you more than I ever could have believed; and I was prepared to miss you a good deal." ~ Vita Sackville-west

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      #3
      Is he " seeing " her or just hanging out with her. There is a difference. I would talk to him about it before jumping the gun on this.
      " There is always hope.
      "

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        #4
        just be strong hun, take it one step at a time...in no time you will feel okay
        "In love, two of the most important ingredients are being open and being content."

        "God must have seen my need for someone who could turn my failure to victory, whose touch could turn my tears to smiles, who by just being there could turn my sadness to laughter. That's why he sent you to me."

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          #5
          SharonQ Im not sure. I knew at the time that I was probably overreacting but at the time it was hard to tell myself otherwise. Its probably just hanging out. But he could have just told me cause I wouldnt have cared that much that way. Sure we arnt in a relationship but he is suppose to be a friend.

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            #6
            i would be upset and pissed too

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              #7
              i would be upset as well seeing my ex with someone else so quick. But you have to understand there isn't much you can do because you're broken up and yes your feelings are valid and it's totally okay to be pissed and upset with what you saw.

              Stay strong and try not to let you pull you down.

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                #8
                I'd be pissed as well. It really hurts to think they can get over you so quickly...All you can do it let your anger out in a healthy manner and do everything and anything you can do make yourself feel better...which usually means spending a lot of cash. But hey...works for me. *HUGS*
                .We've Closed the Distance.
                no matter where i am, no matter where you are
                i'll be there when it's over baby - cause i was there from the start
                no matter if i'm near - dont matter if you're far
                all you do is pick the phone up baby & i'll be there when you call

                Whenever you need me, whenever you want me, ♥

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                  #9
                  Well I'm going paintballing on Sunday... probably a good way to let some anger out lol :P

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                    #10
                    I would be so extremely pissed off too. I think paint balling is a GREAT idea! Shot for the areas that hurt most :P
                    Time will heal the wound, I promise. You're going to get a great guy one day (one that knows how to avoid paint balls) hahaha

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