I am going to leave him !

[Eric1221]

I recently made a post about something that my boyfriend said to me and that he was being "sarcastic." I thought about it and I realized that there are plenty of other people out there that will treat me with respect. We only dated for 2 months october 26 was the 2 month mark. It just hurts when you invest so much time in somebody-especially long distance and than you figure out that they have abusive tendencies. He was my first legit boyfriend. It hurts but at the same time it has to be done ! I'll find somebody who will treat me the way I should be treated. Guys, thank you so much for making me realize this! I don't think I could have done it on my own..seriously

[floridaellen]

I think you are doing the right thing. It will get better with time. You will find someone who treats you with respect and loves you, I promise!

[Eric1221]

I just don't understand it..it makes me upset how much time and effort i put into him and than it all blew up in my face.

[snow_girl]

Good luck, you are right there are many guys out there who will treat you like gold. Breaking up is never easy but doing the right thing for you will have many benefits.

[Bethypoo]

Im glad we could help! You really are worth so much more than the way you were being treated. GO YOU!!! Good luck!!!

[Babypuppy21]

*Hugs*
Wishing you all the best that special someone is out there for you.

[floridaellen]

I just don't understand it..it makes me upset how much time and effort i put into him and than it all blew up in my face.

Unfortunately that happens sometimes. Just be happy that you didn't waste more time on this man and didn't experience even more hurt.

[Eric1221]

u are right ! I'm about to do it right now... I'm nervous

[snow_girl]

You can do it! Once it is over all the nervousness will go away *hugs*

[Joyce:)]

You're lucky you didn't invest more than two months in this.. people spend years in relationships to then leave because they've become abusive. It's good that these red flags came out so early on, good luck finding someone better and nicer!

[Eric1221]

Yes I did it ! When i told him all he did was ask y and i told him that you dont have any love and respect for me and idc if ur sarcastic thats not how u treat someone and i cant do that 2 myself anymore. and he was like "nobody said anything, you made that decision." and i was like "your right.. i did make that decision because you dont have love or respect for me. I'll find someone who does. and than he said ok and changed his pic and status 2 living life and single lol I do feel much better becuz i kno that I'm not locked in !! THANK YOU SO MUCH GUYS !!!!

[snow_girl]

Seems it didn't take him too long to adjust to being single. You made the right decision and I bet there is a huge weight lifted from your shoulders now. Good job! Proud of you!

[Eric1221]

A weight really has been lifted ! I'm proud of myself too ! THANK YOU SO MUCH !!!!!

[laura95]

Thank goodness you got yourself out of that one. If there's no respect, there's no relationship. Chin up, you deserve someone way better - & there's someone out there for everyone. Have fun finding them & good luck!

[Minerva]

*tight hugs* to you.

I know this wasn't easy, but you've done the right thing. Take a bit of time to heal from this. And know you're worth too much to ever be treated like that again.

Best of luck. =)