I had a long talk with that guy i broke up with

[Eric1221]

I talked with him about EVERYTHING. He says that he wishes I was not soft and that i had a tough exterior and that the things he said about being a ****** and stupid and a ****** knows more than u would not have been a big deal if it was in person. I'm still not with him because i just don't agree with this. He said he loves me and wants 2 be with me but only if i become tougher. Now I said to him, "Dorian.. thats the same thing as me saying that you need to be more sensitive to other ppls feelings and understanding." The point is that even after I broke up with him I tried to talk to him just to come to a mutual understanding. We came to the conclusion that were just not for eachother. We are going to remain friends. He feels that I should not have made my decision based on wat friends said and wat a website said. I know what I did wasn't wrong. He doesn't want to accept responsibility for his actions and move on from it. Instead he's hung up on the fact that I broke up with him. He said "You made the decision so now you have to live with it." Once again he's trying to flip it back on me! What does that say about him ? He never cared lol

[CynicalQuixotic]

You made a good decision based on careful thought. Your ex is acting like a grade-A douche, and honestly, it sounds like he has his own emotional issues he needs to work through. You did a brave thing and wise thing, lovely, and we're proud of you.

[snow_girl]

You shouldn't have to change to be with someone. He can go find some tough girl that can handle his snide remarks, you don't need to take that. There is nothing wrong with being sensitive, especially if its towards being called names.

[nic&matt]

Good conclusion! You deserve more and will get it! That's good attitude right there

[loveknowsnodistance27]

You did the right thing. He was treating you like crap and you don't deserve that, you deserve to be treated like a princess! Try not to let him get to you, because you most definitely made the right decision. There's someone much better than him out there for you.

[CynicalQuixotic]

He was treating you like crap and you don't deserve that, you deserve to be treated like a princess!

Eric is a guy who was in a relationship with another guy.

[Eric1221]

LOL

[CynicalQuixotic]

LOL

Pretty much my same reaction.

[Eric1221]

Thank you so much guys for the support and understanding. I know it's annoying 2 read through peoples problems sometimes but thank you !

[snow_girl]

He should still be treated like a princess! Saying he should be treated like a prince makes me think of having to go fight off dragons or something from paper bag princess, that prince was treated awfully!

[megfashion]

hehe, i think you made the right move out of that one! saying its all your fault and you have to "deal with it" that you arent going out with him... jeeesh.
lovelove x

[Sunbeam]

You definitely made the right decision. Your ex sounds like an asshat.
*hugs*

[Eric1221]

THANKS GUYS !

[Kerry]

sounds like you made the right decision hun. you deserve a guy who is going to be very loving towards you.

[Bethypoo]

Well i am glad you are happy and sure about your decision. Im sure you will be alot better off. He sounds like a jerk and just needs some time yo grow up. You will be alot happier. YAY you.