Over and Over and Over again.

[Tobby]

So you know how theres a honeymoon stage in a relationship, where all you do is hug,kiss and talk to each other nonstop? does this ever reset in your relationship? because of all the time spent away, all you do is long for your soulmate and when the time comes when you meet again, the sparks reignite? In my situation i believe it'll happen for a looooong period of time. Does this happen to anyone else?

[CynicalQuixotic]

So you know how theres a honeymoon stage in a relationship, where all you do is hug,kiss and talk to each other nonstop? does this ever reset in your relationship? because of all the time spent away, all you do is long for your soulmate and when the time comes when you meet again, the sparks reignite? In my situation i believe it'll happen for a looooong period of time. Does this happen to anyone else?

I think this happens in every long distance relationship. I mean, you're physically apart from your SO, of course it will prolong the honeymoon stage.

[elizabethjp2010]

i mean yeah. when were together all he does is hold me and kiss me, idk if its a "honeymoon" stage or just how being in love is.

[kiara_silver]

We've only met once, but I feel the honeymoon stage repeats a lot in our relationship. Was like that in the beginning, then when we got to 1 year together started over, then when he booked his flight all that excitement, then when we met. So for our relationship its always come back and never been gone long. I know it will be like that when he's here, just wanting to hold each other. I guess thats one benefit of a LD relationship. appreciating each other and having that honeymoon stage longer then if in a CD relationship

[Sora1101]

The honeymoon stage definitely repeats itself, if not get stronger the second time around because you know what you've been missing so finally seeing them again makes it a million times better.

[Jgui]

I think being in a LDR prolongs the honeymoon stage. Because you're apart for a long period
Of time when you reunite it feels like the 1st time all over again.

I'm only 2 hours away from my SO and we see each other weekly, yet every time feels like the 1st date all over again.

[Zapookie]

The honeymoon stage definitely repeats itself, if not get stronger the second time around because you know what you've been missing so finally seeing them again makes it a million times better.

Agreed. The next meeting with my SO will be filled with a lot of emotion after being away from each other so long, and even now, after having our first meeting, we're still stuck in that honeymoon period. I think it only will truly end once we close the distance and settle down.

[Silvaria]

I'll add my voice to the chorus: We also go through new honeymoon phases pretty regularly. But the good part is that even the lows in-between aren't as low as they were in younger stages of our relationship; now, they're mostly just times of not being -quite- as mushy as often.

And best of all, it's awesome when a new one starts, which coincidentally for us was about a week ago, so I'm feeling fairly happy.

[Engel]

I think this happens in every long distance relationship. I mean, you're physically apart from your SO, of course it will prolong the honeymoon stage.

I agree. it prolongs the honeymoon stage when in person, there can be some small discussions in between visits I guess.

[Malaga]

I'll add my voice to the chorus: We also go through new honeymoon phases pretty regularly. But the good part is that even the lows in-between aren't as low as they were in younger stages of our relationship; now, they're mostly just times of not being -quite- as mushy as often.

Exactly! I used to worry time could somehow kill the spark, that he could get bored of me. But now I feel the more time goes by, the more hooked he is on me. At least that's how he acts. Even when times are low, he still reaches out to me more than he used to.

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I'll add my voice to the chorus: We also go through new honeymoon phases pretty regularly. But the good part is that even the lows in-between aren't as low as they were in younger stages of our relationship; now, they're mostly just times of not being -quite- as mushy as often.

Exactly! I used to worry time could somehow kill the spark, that he could get bored of me. But now I feel the more time goes by, the more hooked he is on me. At least that's how he acts. Even when times are low, he still reaches out to me more than he used to.

[NaNi]

My SO and I are still all over each other every visit. We barely see each other anyway, so once the day is here we're just so excited and happy!

[Bethypoo]

Yes and no.

Yes, because time apart does make the heart grow fonder and every time you are reunited the butterflies start back up and you just want to hug and kiss and cuddle. I love that feeling and I think, as CQ said, i think that happens in all LDRs.

No because of this example. My SO and I spent all summer together (almost 4 months). When i had to go back to school i was devastated and cried forever. We fought because the situation sucked but then got over it. We were back to being our lovy dovy selves and then he decided to come visit. When he got here, I was terrified because as excited as I was, those butterflies weren't there and I thought that something was wrong and that maybe i was getting over the relationship or something. But then i realized that I had seen him only 2 months prior and seeing each other became normal. And as much as you love someone, if you see them everyday, the lovy dovy may go away.
Yea, complicated, but hopefully you know what I mean.