Talking like a child

[hunniebunn]

I was skyping my SO today, and we were talking about accents and we were trying to copy each others. (random I know!)
So I tried his italian accent and failed miserably, and I said I guess I can't do impersonations very well. And he replied, laughing, you can do a little kid voice very well. I laughed as well, and then he had said, but you do it more than you think, sometimes even in bed. He says it's cute and loves it when we are cuddling and in funny moments, but I could tell in his voice that it's not something he likes in the bedroom.
I never really realized that I talk like that, and it's not anything that I intentionally do, but if it's something that even he notices, it needs to be addressed. Have you ever had this happen with anybody you were dating, or yourself? And how do I break this little "habit"?

[Engel]

Hmm, I think I talk like a child to my SO sometimes. not something i plan to do, but i guess it can come out like that sometimes. he thinks its cute, so its not a big deal. but i also wouldnt want to go to bed with a child, so i guess if you keep from talking like that in the bedroom everything will be ok.


just pay attention to when you talk, after a while you wont have to, becaue you will have gotten used not to talk like that in certain situations anymore

[elizabethjp2010]

Ill do a sad voice without realizing it my SO hates, just try to be aware, its hard, and dont think about it to much, just try to figure out when you do it and what starts it.

[Bethypoo]

Now that you are aware of it, I guarantee you will notice when you do it and will be more able to stop it when it isn't the right... um... time.

[LeilaniJoi]

My ex did that and WOULD do it in bed. Him pulling the covers up to his nose and saying in a little kid voice "but I'm shy" was a HUGE turnoff. There is definitely a time and a place... the bedroom is not the place for baby talk.. ugh.

[weetzie]

I do it all the time around my SO. I don't think he minds, or he'd say something. At least I only do it with him, and not around other people.

[Zapookie]

My SO does it for laughs. It's sooooo adorable, but I don't want him doing that in bed because that's kinda weird hahah. I think you just have to be more aware of yourself and how you talk to him, I'm sure you will be now that he's brought it up.

[Sharon Q]

Ill do a sad voice without realizing it my SO hates,

I do the same thing!!! My SO hates it as well.

Just have him let you know when you do the voice thing.

[BlueCat]

My SO and I both talk really cute to each other sometimes, it's just something that has somehow happened. I'm not much of a fan of it in the bedroom either, mainly for the fact that I feel like it breaks the mood for me if we're being intimate and all of a sudden he's really silly like that. No that sex can't be fun and silly, because sometimes it should be, but we leave that cute talk for random moments throughout the day.