has your SO ever done this?

[megfashion]

noo im not annoyed at him. just... shocked... in a nice way.

has your SO ever reacted differently to how youd think he would react?



for example... this ex called julia really really got to me yesterday. also i was feeling rather down about graham (SO's dad that passed) and so it all got abit too much. this lasted a whole day and the SO just texted later with "babe what is wrong."

well at about 11.15pm (hehe) i texted him and said i was ready to talk about it (it takes me a while to even know how i feel, let alone tell him).

instead of him snapping alot about julia and how i hate her (i did say i just cant stand her along with other things), he said this...

"well i love you, and i always with, and that is all that matters. so what she posts statuses about me, i dont do that to her"



n well i kind of stopped crying for an instant.... coz i was like WOAHHHHHHHHH. he didnt say anything about his dad which is very understandable... but i have a thing about forgetting the major and dealing with the minor (spose to get the lil things out of the way to deal with major things?)



has your SO ever done this?
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[Sharon Q]

Yeah. My SO was amazing with things tonight as well. We had been fighting about my friend ( read " my guy friend " ) and then I told him something unrelated to my guy friend, that I did a long time ago when things were bad with us.

Basically a while back when things were bad with us and he couldnt show me effection he had told me to " seek effection else where "

and I met this guy online who live in england and we casually flirted Nothing bad just how my SO should treat me better and how he would treat me, that I was pretty and I complemented him a few times.

( this was three months after we got together and I didnt tell him 1 because in the long run the guy helped me stand up to my SO and tell him how I felt and it fixed our relationship. and 2 I didnt want to hurt him, We've been together for 9 months now and things have gotten tons better. )

We've been having issues with our trust foundation and I asked him ( in tears mind you )

" If I did something a long time ago when things were bad with us would you want me to tell you? "

He said " yes "

And I told him how when he had told me to " find affection else where " that I had flirted casually with this guy and it was nothing too bad just the " If I was with you I would treat you better " " he is lucky to have you " " You're very pretty "

And I let him know that the guy had helped me and gave me advice and that actually saved our relationship.

To my surprise he didn't act hurt, and by this point I was balling my eyes out. He simply asked
" whats wrong? "
" It's really not a big deal "

I said I didnt want to lose him, He said " you're not going to lose me I love you "

And he just kept repeating " I love you " until I calmed down, He had to of said it at least 10 times or more...

I'm so lucky to have him, and from now on I'm going to tell him everything.