So....it's almost been 6 months with my SO and I, and it'll be my longest relationship ever! Whoo! But we've been getting into arguments non-stop, and there's always a lot of crying, and then we always make up before finding something else to argue about. We've gone through a bump like this before, and we've come out of it, but it's just a little scary.
In my opinion, I feel this is the distance settling in. He doesn't have a computer of any kind, as a result, we can't have Skype dates. So we talk on the phone a lot, except he works when I don't have classes and I have classes when he's off from work. And by then, it's like 8:30/9:00 PM where I am, and it's dinner time for him. Then he has dinner and chores, and doesn't finish until 10:30/11 PM my time. By then, I have a tendency to just pass out. So finding time to talk has become an issue.
Second, he was supposed to visit for a formal event called Date Party, but during the election, he ended up getting a DUI and now has a court date, so he can't leave the state. I'm totally over it, but it did put tension in our relationship for awhile.
Lastly, we almost broke up a few weeks ago, so that really put a strain on our relationship. I really think we needed to almost break up, because we solidified our relationship and it's stronger than it was before. So it's a good thing, but in the back of my mind, I'm just scared it's going to happen again.
I'm not really posting for advice, but I think I'm just venting. So, feel free to post anything!
In my opinion, I feel this is the distance settling in. He doesn't have a computer of any kind, as a result, we can't have Skype dates. So we talk on the phone a lot, except he works when I don't have classes and I have classes when he's off from work. And by then, it's like 8:30/9:00 PM where I am, and it's dinner time for him. Then he has dinner and chores, and doesn't finish until 10:30/11 PM my time. By then, I have a tendency to just pass out. So finding time to talk has become an issue.
Second, he was supposed to visit for a formal event called Date Party, but during the election, he ended up getting a DUI and now has a court date, so he can't leave the state. I'm totally over it, but it did put tension in our relationship for awhile.
Lastly, we almost broke up a few weeks ago, so that really put a strain on our relationship. I really think we needed to almost break up, because we solidified our relationship and it's stronger than it was before. So it's a good thing, but in the back of my mind, I'm just scared it's going to happen again.
I'm not really posting for advice, but I think I'm just venting. So, feel free to post anything!
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