Is it Possible?

[Soul]

Do you think we can make it?

I have a rare skin disorder and my girlfriend has seizures, yet we have been going strong for six months.
But im worried she might leave or cheat because ill be heading back to school in few weeks and will be busy
working and dealing with studies. We dont have our place we leave with our families for now but plan to have a place of own.
My girlfriend gets very needy because due to her seizures she cant work right now and has tons of time to think and
all she thinks is about us,which isnt the problem. But when she says things like u should be here or she feels like giving up
it makes me feel like crap.She says she understands that i work extra hours and go to school for our future but still is hard.
(Longest relationship for both of us,we live only a hour away from each other.)

I dont know what im really trying to say but maybe in need of ideas of how to keep positive and move forward.

[alizee]

Yes it is! Nobody said love was easy to attain!!!! This situation might be an obstacle for you to test your relationship! If you 2 are willing to work for your relationship it can be possible!!!! I believe that in life everything valuable and precious needs to be achieved with hard work, confidence, compromises and understanding! If it is obtained easily then it*s not important .... So, if you 2 are committed to this relationship you must fight for what you have - first, you must stop worrying that she might cheat on you (I know that*s hard, but please be positive about it and think of the beautiful 6 months you said you two had) and she needs to understand (and you wrote she did understand you will get very busy) and cope with the situation.
You two are lucky you live one hour away from each other (me and my SO live 6h away! and I am not saying it is easy on me, but it*s a great connection that we have and I AM WILLING to make all the efforts to make this work!) and you can see each other every week-end, or at least every two weekends ...

[ushiwakafox]

I'm sure having to deal with seizures is rough. But it sounds like she really needs to find a hobby. Too much time to think can be really harmful.