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Do you know what his love language is?
I know this will not be everyone's problem, but my SO and I had a terrible time when we went LD again a few months ago. He was more irritable and annoyed a lot, and he had never been like that before. It took time to work through, but I realized that we were each only using our own love language to try to show how much we loved each other, and they weren't connecting very well. Now that he has read the book also and we realize the problem, we are doing well. Maybe this is not everyone's problem, but I wanted to share in case maybe it could help.
(From The Five Love Languages)
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Originally posted by dglynn77 View PostDo you know what his love language is?
I know this will not be everyone's problem, but my SO and I had a terrible time when we went LD again a few months ago. He was more irritable and annoyed a lot, and he had never been like that before. It took time to work through, but I realized that we were each only using our own love language to try to show how much we loved each other, and they weren't connecting very well. Now that he has read the book also and we realize the problem, we are doing well. Maybe this is not everyone's problem, but I wanted to share in case maybe it could help.
(From The Five Love Languages)
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LDRs need constant and clear commuinication.
If something is wrong talk to each other, don't pretend everything is ok. Talk to each other in a contstructive way. Don't accuse each other, and don't jump down each others throats, take it easy and have a grown up, adult mature conversation~McNab
My Story
Met first time (in person) October 2011
Unofficially together since November 2011
Officially together February 2012
First visit (me to her): 25 Feb 2012 - 22 March 2012
First visit (her to me): 28 Dec 2012 - 11 Jan 2013
Broke up January 2014
Got back together June 2016
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I'm currently experiencing the same thing. I am CONSTANTLY on edge, because twice now he's cut all forms of communication because I've anoyed him. He's reassured me it wont happen again, but I'm so watchful of what I say right now.
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