Hey everyone,
I've been with my girlfriend for 1 year now.
I really love her, and I do think she loves me too, but for the last month or so she seems to be very distant from me. Like, she doesn't talk to me much.
I try to have a conversation with her, but it doesn't really get anywhere, she seems quite distant and uninterested.
I've been very patient with her, but today I got quite frustrated and told her how I've been feeling. She said she knows it is her fault, but she said she is starting to find it hard to text.
I get that, i mean generally we were texting each other through out the day, and sometimes it does get a bit tiring, and that is fine I guess, I mean, when you are texting, you kinda have to stop whatever you are doing in order to reply. If it wasn't a LDR then I doubt most couples are ALWAYS texting throughout the day, just in a LDR text is one of the ways that a couple could be close, otherwise it would be hard to talk to each other.
But for me that only happens occasionally, maybe once every two weeks or so, but she has been like that for 1 month. I still get it I guess, it can be frustrating stopping everything in order to reply every couple of minutes.
On the phone, she is fine, we have fun, and both feel really happy talking to each other, but I can't really be on the phone to her ALL day, even if I could, the phone bills would be crazy.
I really do believe her when she says she loves me, and that she wants to be with me with all her heart, but I'm not sure what to do. I asked her if she wants to still be with me, and she said yes, with all hear heart. I believe her, and I want to be with her too! but.... without talking, how could a LDR work? It can't.... :S
It's been really tough on me, I miss her like crazy. I love talking to her. I feel like it has been ages since I last had a proper conversation with her. I don't know what to do.
Have any of you guys had this situation before? Do you have any advice?
I've been with my girlfriend for 1 year now.
I really love her, and I do think she loves me too, but for the last month or so she seems to be very distant from me. Like, she doesn't talk to me much.
I try to have a conversation with her, but it doesn't really get anywhere, she seems quite distant and uninterested.
I've been very patient with her, but today I got quite frustrated and told her how I've been feeling. She said she knows it is her fault, but she said she is starting to find it hard to text.
I get that, i mean generally we were texting each other through out the day, and sometimes it does get a bit tiring, and that is fine I guess, I mean, when you are texting, you kinda have to stop whatever you are doing in order to reply. If it wasn't a LDR then I doubt most couples are ALWAYS texting throughout the day, just in a LDR text is one of the ways that a couple could be close, otherwise it would be hard to talk to each other.
But for me that only happens occasionally, maybe once every two weeks or so, but she has been like that for 1 month. I still get it I guess, it can be frustrating stopping everything in order to reply every couple of minutes.
On the phone, she is fine, we have fun, and both feel really happy talking to each other, but I can't really be on the phone to her ALL day, even if I could, the phone bills would be crazy.
I really do believe her when she says she loves me, and that she wants to be with me with all her heart, but I'm not sure what to do. I asked her if she wants to still be with me, and she said yes, with all hear heart. I believe her, and I want to be with her too! but.... without talking, how could a LDR work? It can't.... :S
It's been really tough on me, I miss her like crazy. I love talking to her. I feel like it has been ages since I last had a proper conversation with her. I don't know what to do.
Have any of you guys had this situation before? Do you have any advice?
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