Needing advice or Vent

[Bookchick13]

New to the site, trying to learn the ropes. Anyway found this site by accident and found this site hopeful and inspiring! I'm seeking advice or needing to vent, not sure which, but I'd love some of either. Please and thank you

[Zephii]

Well you can spill it here, or in the blogs and you'll likely get lots of advice and or commiserations. Welcome to the forum!

[Bookchick13]

I just would like somone to talk too and maybe help me out a little

[Oldblighty]

Were all here to help you, so feel free to ask, don't be shy dear........

[Bookchick13]

I guess what I want to know is am I crazy? I mean things are a little tough right now and I worry about ALOT of things and I feel I have no one to talk too about it cause no one around me is going through this and I find this website and I see many hopeful and amazing stories, I also see some that are similar to my situation. But most of the time my worry, frustration and overwhelmingness just gets me to point where I'm in tears and silently praying things go right. Am I crazy? Do I need to see a professional?

[Oldblighty]

I guess what I want to know is am I crazy? I mean things are a little tough right now and I worry about ALOT of things and I feel I have no one to talk too about it cause no one around me is going through this and I find this website and I see many hopeful and amazing stories, I also see some that are similar to my situation. But most of the time my worry, frustration and overwhelmingness just gets me to point where I'm in tears and silently praying things go right. Am I crazy? Do I need to see a professional?

Firstly, what is it your actually worrying and getting frustrated about? Is it because you are finding it difficult being so far apart from your SO? Because one thing about being in an LDR is that the distance between you doesn't get any easier, you just have to do all you can to keep your mind occupied. Live your life as much as you can and enjoy those moments you get to talk on Skype etc
All of us on this forum know's how your feeling, so we do understand.

[dragonlady]

so true!! there are days that i bounce of the walls just with thoughts; is this alright? can we do this? what if? etc etc
the first few weeks where the hardest ever! i thought i was loosing my mind!!!
but then i realize it is real, he really loves me and we are going to do our best to make it, we talked a lot about our doubts in the beginnen and even now it get's to us sometimes. i have to admit that getting a shirt from him with his sent and a small token (in my chase a pendant of him) does help to make it touchable if you get what i mean and put my mind to ease. and going true every thing about the moving visa and such knowing what it is going to cost , seeing that it is possible made my mind at ease too, patience! that is the hardest part we curse alot on the word

i am very crafty and making stuff for him makes me feel good, and i just started a scrap kinda book, with pic from him email that i find fun etc and stick it in there allong with other fun fun stuff that i like so when i feel blue i can look in there
hope it all makes sence, and dont be afraid to ask!! we are all in it together!

[Bookchick13]

Ladies you are very helpful you have no I idea! More helpful then my best friend, it may be mean of me to say that but true. Would be helpful to post my LDR story so maybe you ladies can see what I'm dealing with? Thank you ladies so much means alot knowing I'm actually not alone in this