Hello everyone .. First, a huge thank you to anyone who will take the time to read and maybe answer to my post (:
I wasn't sure where to post this thread.. International? College? Study/work abroad? Military?? Anyway here i am and this is our story.
We have been together for a year and 5 months, I am from Bulgaria and he is from Denmark. We love eachother more than anythign in this world. He had enlisted in the military before we met and has a contract there, and also really good career opportunities.
From before I met him, I wanted to study in university in Germany. After we met, I had the desire to study in Denmark, but since I have no interest in the bachelor programmes offered in English there (which are very few!!!) I had to return to my original wish to study in Germany. Now the thing is, I want to study medicine. And seeing as I can't do that in Denmark, because I don't know Danish, this means us spending the next AT LEAST 6 years apart, and then 4 more afterwards, in order for me to finish my degree in Germany and then move to him. This is where the problem comes ..... I really really want to study medicine, but I want us to close the distance and finally live together even more ..... He feels the same. Sadly he doesn't know German and since he is in the military it would be very hard if not impossible to move and live with me during my study. And everything comes down to my choice... I either have to chose another (shorter) degree, or spend the next 10 years in a long distance relatonship, separated from the person who means the world to me .... I have two weeks to decide how our life will go from now on ..
I know this is my decision and none of you can decide for me. But it would be really helpful to hear your opinions, what you would do in my place, if you have faced a similar situation in the past and how you came around with it .... Any advice, support,anything, will be greatly appreciated...... Thanks in advance (:
I wasn't sure where to post this thread.. International? College? Study/work abroad? Military?? Anyway here i am and this is our story.
We have been together for a year and 5 months, I am from Bulgaria and he is from Denmark. We love eachother more than anythign in this world. He had enlisted in the military before we met and has a contract there, and also really good career opportunities.
From before I met him, I wanted to study in university in Germany. After we met, I had the desire to study in Denmark, but since I have no interest in the bachelor programmes offered in English there (which are very few!!!) I had to return to my original wish to study in Germany. Now the thing is, I want to study medicine. And seeing as I can't do that in Denmark, because I don't know Danish, this means us spending the next AT LEAST 6 years apart, and then 4 more afterwards, in order for me to finish my degree in Germany and then move to him. This is where the problem comes ..... I really really want to study medicine, but I want us to close the distance and finally live together even more ..... He feels the same. Sadly he doesn't know German and since he is in the military it would be very hard if not impossible to move and live with me during my study. And everything comes down to my choice... I either have to chose another (shorter) degree, or spend the next 10 years in a long distance relatonship, separated from the person who means the world to me .... I have two weeks to decide how our life will go from now on ..
I know this is my decision and none of you can decide for me. But it would be really helpful to hear your opinions, what you would do in my place, if you have faced a similar situation in the past and how you came around with it .... Any advice, support,anything, will be greatly appreciated...... Thanks in advance (:
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