Learning to RELAX and trust

[ZenZeta]

I must admit that I've created my own roller coaster of sorts with this brand new LDR. My biggest lesson is learning how to turn off the negative dialogue that goes on in my brain (self-sabotage).

The latest is that the cell phone is DEAD. Rice didn't fix it, so we've had to be creative in our communication (actually reducing it has given me time to come back to earth and take care of myself). My sweetie went through the effort of finding a phone that would accept his SIM card just to have a 10 minute conversation with me to assure me that everything is fine.

We were able to communicate via FB over the weekend and (drum roll) he has a break this weekend and he's coming home!!! I'm sure his phone situation has a lot to do with it, but I am soooo excited!!!!

[Jazi]

It's great to see a thread on here where someone has realised they need to trust and relax, it is SOOO important and probably the basis of ALL of our relationship advice on here!

Just wanted to praise you on a good update thread

Thanks for showing that the advice does sink in from time to time..