It's been forever since I've actually gone on here and asked anyone for advice... I guess I've just waited til it really bothered me.
Heres the short version:
I've met my LD 'friend' Sean about nearly 2 years ago. We've talked everyday since then and dated about 8 or 9 months afterward. It lasted about 5 months and we kinda broke up mutually. He always told me his feelings were strong almost love but he didn't want to say it until we were finally face to face. He planned as we were dating and even afterward that he'd come here in July (he didn't). Anyway, I do have strong feelings for him, its actually stopped me from getting an actual relationship because I just can't.. About a month after we broke up he said he didn't have feelings for me but couldn't explain where the feelings went 'friendly or strong love' but it broke my heart anyway. We kept at the friends thing but honestly, its hard when he couldn't stand for me to be with another guy and neither could I with him and a girl. We fought, a lot and I told him I was done talking. That was in April, my grandmother had passed (he wanted to fight a couple days after she passed) and then forgot my birthday in the same month. I was just done. This 'no talking' lasted nearly three weeks. I was great the first week, happy and the following week my best friend introduced me to her boyfriend's friend. We hit it off and began to date but it ended in disaster. Me and Sean started talking again and I realized I couldn't get another boyfriend without feeling like crap(Sean seemed fine..he managed to get back into the one night stand thing again). Now Sean is acting like we are terrible friends. He tells me often that I am 'boring' and that he doesn't want to talk 'every day'. I don't really understand. Yes, we don't talk every day anymore and I am fine with that...I am just not sure where he is getting all this at. My mother (who is about 95% right with my relationships) tells me he still has feelings, he just knows meeting is like 10% of happening and doesn't want to get close.
What do you all think?
Heres the short version:
I've met my LD 'friend' Sean about nearly 2 years ago. We've talked everyday since then and dated about 8 or 9 months afterward. It lasted about 5 months and we kinda broke up mutually. He always told me his feelings were strong almost love but he didn't want to say it until we were finally face to face. He planned as we were dating and even afterward that he'd come here in July (he didn't). Anyway, I do have strong feelings for him, its actually stopped me from getting an actual relationship because I just can't.. About a month after we broke up he said he didn't have feelings for me but couldn't explain where the feelings went 'friendly or strong love' but it broke my heart anyway. We kept at the friends thing but honestly, its hard when he couldn't stand for me to be with another guy and neither could I with him and a girl. We fought, a lot and I told him I was done talking. That was in April, my grandmother had passed (he wanted to fight a couple days after she passed) and then forgot my birthday in the same month. I was just done. This 'no talking' lasted nearly three weeks. I was great the first week, happy and the following week my best friend introduced me to her boyfriend's friend. We hit it off and began to date but it ended in disaster. Me and Sean started talking again and I realized I couldn't get another boyfriend without feeling like crap(Sean seemed fine..he managed to get back into the one night stand thing again). Now Sean is acting like we are terrible friends. He tells me often that I am 'boring' and that he doesn't want to talk 'every day'. I don't really understand. Yes, we don't talk every day anymore and I am fine with that...I am just not sure where he is getting all this at. My mother (who is about 95% right with my relationships) tells me he still has feelings, he just knows meeting is like 10% of happening and doesn't want to get close.
What do you all think?
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