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    LDR Story That needs support.

    Hey Everybody,

    My Name is Joana and Iīm 25. I met this amazing guy over the internet like 5/6 months ago, and we are really in love. The thing is he is 6700 miles away from me. My dad (which was my financial support all along, I worked also but my job is not a common job anyways) kinda ditched me cause he told me it was crazy to go after a guy in another country. So I ditched my life and came with no money or support from my family to a major city in Brazil to try to get help to go to finally meet him.

    Ok, I was a producer/manager (artists) since I was 18 (my ex-husband put me in the media ). Anyways I know companies in Brazil that would be willing to help me if I make this a major deal (I mean if I can reach enough people with my story they would sponsor me)

    Anyways I decided so, to create a FB page to people like and show their support, and also to share the page with friends so more people can like it. Its crazy I know ( maybe my head just think in a "TV" way, but thatīs pretty much my whole life of working dedicated to produce major things.. anyways) Yeah I know you are wondering why the rush. Well there is so much to tell about this story. and I am sure long texts are awful so you can check some of my story at a website I made ( the forum doesnt allow me to post the link ..) and if you wanna know more you can contact me (my data is on the website), maybe I am blind, maybe not.. maybe its just love..I donīt know!

    But if you can go to FB and search 1mpossibleplans just like and share the page with your friends!

    And hey I am willing to talk to everybody and explain, its weird and complicated. But it worths a try!
    oh my skype is impossibleplans you can add me Iīll be happy to explain my story

    Thank You for your time =)

    ps- I`m sorry for my English, I know its not one of the best.

    #2
    oh why does your website have to be in flash. I cant view it on my mobile. I'll check it later and reply here.

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      #3
      I read your story on your website and liked your page on FB. Although I would never tell anyone to do all that you have just to be with the one you love, especially drop college and all that, I can't help but be inspired by your determination. Keep working hard and you'll find a way to him. Things may not go as you initially planned, but everything will work out somehow.
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        #4
        I can't seem to find you on Facebook...

        EDIT: through some google searching I found your website... and I am going to be really blunt, but if all of us in LDRs ditched our jobs and university and asked the internet to help make meetings happen, we all would never meet our respective SOs. I get that you want to meet him. Trust me, I do. I've been in relationships before where I've gone years before meeting in person. But a lot of people decide to stay in university and their jobs because ultimately they'll be able to pay for their LDRs themselves... and to me I guess it doesn't make sense that you would ditch a money income that you could have tried to save to see him...
        Last edited by Ejoriah; July 18, 2013, 06:02 PM.
        So, here you are
        too foreign for home
        too foreign for here.
        Never enough for both.

        Ijeoma Umebinyuo, Diaspora Blues

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          #5
          Originally posted by Ejoriah View Post
          I can't seem to find you on Facebook...

          EDIT: through some google searching I found your website... and I am going to be really blunt, but if all of us in LDRs ditched our jobs and university and asked the internet to help make meetings happen, we all would never meet our respective SOs. I get that you want to meet him. Trust me, I do. I've been in relationships before where I've gone years before meeting in person. But a lot of people decide to stay in university and their jobs because ultimately they'll be able to pay for their LDRs themselves... and to me I guess it doesn't make sense that you would ditch a money income that you could have tried to save to see him...
          I totally understand you. But I told this is not the whole story. So its not abou the ditching jobs and uni parts.. or anything... that is so much more ... so much .. thatīs why I said that I was free to explain the story to anyone who might be interested.. thatīs all.. But I get your point. And thank you for sharing it with us. Anyways .. yeah thats is much more...

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            #6
            Ill be honest, I read your website and you mention that he really doesn't know you are doing this, gathering money and trying to leave your country, I mean, you do know that to suddenly leave your country and go live with him in the US, you do legally need more than just money right? You need a visa, and that can take a lot of time, are you planning to enter the country illegally? You say there is much more to the story, I think right now I would be concerned just because after only 5 or 6 months you basically stopped your entire life and by the sound of it made yourself homeless in order to try to get to him, I understand that you say there is more to the story than what you have said on here and on your website, but if there is, maybe it's best to explain that too? Right now, I have to tell you that as just another person who doesn't know you personally but has read your story, it sounds very impulsive and not to mention dangerous, but if there is much more to this than just the fact you love him and want to be with him and cannot wait, I would be interested in knowing it and trying to better understand your situation. I mean my first reaction when you say that their is "so so much more" is to wonder if one of you is in trouble or something? I just have to tell you, that although it may seem like a wonderfully romantic thing to sacrifice so much for someone you love, I think it can also be taken as really dangerous, impulsive, and self destructive too, especially since you now say you are pretty much homeless, and he doesn't even really know your attempting this...If there is more to this situation, I think it's going to be important to explain that too, especially if you are asking for financially assistance and such. I wish you all the best though, hope you stay safe.
            Last edited by NerdyChick; July 19, 2013, 09:43 AM.
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