Hello LFAD.
I have a little situation that is bothering me slightly, so I would like to seek a little advice from you.
A little background story, I met a girl online for about 6 months ago and we've been in an LDR for about 2 months now. We talk everyday for several hours and it's all amazing and great and we both love each other veeeeeeeery much! - and the best thing is that we're spending one month together next year. It's going to be amazing!
Anyway, after she's graduating College in 3 years she wants me to move to US with her to study at NYU. We're both from Europe. Now, I would loooooooove to move to the US with her and study abroad with her at the same University, but I have no idea if I'm capable of doing this.
First of all, I have no idea if I'm good enough for a University such as NYU, but that's not a big matter, I can always find something different I guess.There's just so much stuff about citizenship and what not because I have no relation to the US at all. There's insane amounts of stuff that has to planned. also, I don't think my parents would like me going to the US. It's just soo overwhelming and it gives this huge weight on my shoulder.
I asked her if she would break up with me if I don't come with her, she said no but she was like it won't work if I don't come with her because there is no way that we can see each other she said, which I disagree on; I can always visit her in breaks.
I would love to move to the US with her, but I think in 3 years I will be 20 and I don't know, it's not sounding too comfortable for me.
So... I don't know what to do, right now I'm just not thinking about and more thinking about the month we're going to spend together next year.
It's just not cool to know that there's a possible end date of things. I really love this girl and I will do everything but her, I really want to go to the US
with her but I don't know it just seems so overwhelming and unpossible right now.
So do any of you know if it's really that hard moving to the US at the age of 20? I have no idea. Thank you for reading.
I have a little situation that is bothering me slightly, so I would like to seek a little advice from you.
A little background story, I met a girl online for about 6 months ago and we've been in an LDR for about 2 months now. We talk everyday for several hours and it's all amazing and great and we both love each other veeeeeeeery much! - and the best thing is that we're spending one month together next year. It's going to be amazing!
Anyway, after she's graduating College in 3 years she wants me to move to US with her to study at NYU. We're both from Europe. Now, I would loooooooove to move to the US with her and study abroad with her at the same University, but I have no idea if I'm capable of doing this.
First of all, I have no idea if I'm good enough for a University such as NYU, but that's not a big matter, I can always find something different I guess.There's just so much stuff about citizenship and what not because I have no relation to the US at all. There's insane amounts of stuff that has to planned. also, I don't think my parents would like me going to the US. It's just soo overwhelming and it gives this huge weight on my shoulder.
I asked her if she would break up with me if I don't come with her, she said no but she was like it won't work if I don't come with her because there is no way that we can see each other she said, which I disagree on; I can always visit her in breaks.
I would love to move to the US with her, but I think in 3 years I will be 20 and I don't know, it's not sounding too comfortable for me.
So... I don't know what to do, right now I'm just not thinking about and more thinking about the month we're going to spend together next year.
It's just not cool to know that there's a possible end date of things. I really love this girl and I will do everything but her, I really want to go to the US
with her but I don't know it just seems so overwhelming and unpossible right now.
So do any of you know if it's really that hard moving to the US at the age of 20? I have no idea. Thank you for reading.
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