struggling ;(

[queenb86]

hey folks... me and my babes been together 7 months today and right now im really struggling with the whole distance thing to the point where
its makin me ill

I just miss him so much its killin me not bein able to be with him.

And to make things 100 times worse, he is in the middle of an ice storm in Toronto just now so i have no contact with him at all ;(

pure bullshit

[snow_girl]

Yep, life sucks. Just have to decide if the bullshit is worth the end result.

[queenb86]

hes more than worth it.... just having major wobble issues right now lol

[lyonsgirl]

Can't say I've ever been sick because of the distance.

What are "wobble issues"? I've never heard the phrase.

[queenb86]

not physically sick, just that feelin ya get in your stomach

wobbles lol like little blips where everything seems 100 times worse than it is.

Not sure if its the time of year or what, seem to be spending alot of time cryin

[piratemama]

I'm so sorry you are sad and hurting. I've had moments like that where I sob uncontrollably. It is worse for me this time of year, too. I know exactly what you mean by that sick feeling in the tummy; I have it sometimes, too. The distance is awful!!!

Please get busy doing something, so you can get your mind distracted some. Don't fall into a pit of despair. I know it doesn't help much, but you know this will pass eventually. Hang in there, and know lots of us are feeling some of the same emotions. Some of us are not able to be in touch with our SO's either. You aren't alone.

[BabyGund]

I think it's the time of the year. Holidays just come with so many emotions. I was feeling a bit sad earlier, missing him. And he's in Toronto in that ice storm. So I made myself get up and enjoy the weather here and I feel better.

I don't have any advice, I commensurate.