SO and I have been together a year and 3 months..known each other going on 12 years..
In that time he's been over to see me .. 2-3 times maybe.. and he's coming again this weekend.. he's only ever met my mum and 2 of my friends (who are neighbours and close to me). He met them a year after we'd been together..
This weekend I was hoping he would come meet a few of my other friends at their house.. like 2-3 people maybe 6 ..im not really sure who will be there..
And already he's like "but I've not heard of most of these people.." ...Why would he? he never asks about my friends....
"its too many people.. im not comfortable".. then says he's not comfortable with his weight to meet my friends..Yet he's fine walking around london and still eating rubbish..it's just excuses.
It's been a year and 3 months.. and he's never been bothered that i have friends or about meeting them..
When he met my 2 close friends/neighbours i had to coax him into it.. he refused to budge from where he was sitting and i had to talk him into it..it was exhausting.. He's shy i get that.. but he's not even trying.. I find it disheartening that i never hear him say "Sure i'd love to meet your friends, though i will be nervous"..
I've met a good few of his friends and other people he knows.. I've even had to stay at 2 of his friends houses and travel for hours to spend NYE night with his friend.. i also spent 5 hours in a cave with his family (without him cos he threw a sulk and didnt come with us)..
Like I'm more confident than him ..but I am shy meeting new people..but i put the effort in ... after this long.. I would expect him to try a bit harder..I swear he doesn't take it at all serious cos he'll never live here so he technically doesn't need to meet them..
I'm sick of him acting like a child and getting all funny when he's asked to do something he doesn't want to do (he's 24!!)
end of rant.
In that time he's been over to see me .. 2-3 times maybe.. and he's coming again this weekend.. he's only ever met my mum and 2 of my friends (who are neighbours and close to me). He met them a year after we'd been together..
This weekend I was hoping he would come meet a few of my other friends at their house.. like 2-3 people maybe 6 ..im not really sure who will be there..
And already he's like "but I've not heard of most of these people.." ...Why would he? he never asks about my friends....
"its too many people.. im not comfortable".. then says he's not comfortable with his weight to meet my friends..Yet he's fine walking around london and still eating rubbish..it's just excuses.
It's been a year and 3 months.. and he's never been bothered that i have friends or about meeting them..
When he met my 2 close friends/neighbours i had to coax him into it.. he refused to budge from where he was sitting and i had to talk him into it..it was exhausting.. He's shy i get that.. but he's not even trying.. I find it disheartening that i never hear him say "Sure i'd love to meet your friends, though i will be nervous"..
I've met a good few of his friends and other people he knows.. I've even had to stay at 2 of his friends houses and travel for hours to spend NYE night with his friend.. i also spent 5 hours in a cave with his family (without him cos he threw a sulk and didnt come with us)..
Like I'm more confident than him ..but I am shy meeting new people..but i put the effort in ... after this long.. I would expect him to try a bit harder..I swear he doesn't take it at all serious cos he'll never live here so he technically doesn't need to meet them..
I'm sick of him acting like a child and getting all funny when he's asked to do something he doesn't want to do (he's 24!!)
end of rant.
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