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    Brazilian or Belgian Men?

    Ive been dating these 2 races for the Brazilian its been 1yr nd 1month and the Belgian guy for 6months...the Brazilian was like my other half whenver you have problems he was flexible to listen up, he was not perfect but we communicate most of the time he wasnt handsome but he has its jealousy habits sometimes...he was almost perfect but the thing is the guy was jobless ...the Belgian guy was much younger he wss hardworking, but we rarely communicate even through skype compare to the brazilian guy...but he was not sweet compare to the other one but he is more of a responsible person who could be a good dad in the future he loves kids nd he has a job also living independently....so i need some advice which is the besr guy for me...my life im working as a professional i have everything besides these 2 guys which i have to choose...to be my future one? So please help thnx just an opinion i need
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    I'd say neither, since you've stated that the Brazilian guy is jobless and has some jealousy streak, both of which you seem not too thrilled about, while the Belgian dude sounds like he isn't very skilled in the communication department and also he isn't as sweet, again, both of those characteristics you seem not to be too happy about. And understandably so. You should look for someone stable with excellent communication skills, who is sweet and perhaps also attractive in the looks department as well.

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      #3
      We really can't choose for you, it's a decision you have to make for yourself. In my opinion, you shouldn't be choosing between them anyway, that's a bad way to decide who to spend your life with. You should be thinking "Do I want to be with the Brazilian guy long term? Yes, or no?" and "Do I want to be with the Belgian guy long term? Yes, or no?" It's not about comparing the two, it's about whether you want to with them, or not, not in comparison to each other, but on their own standing.
      Together since: Feb 23rd 2005.
      First met: June 13th 2006

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        #4
        Why not take both? Oh yeah Brazilian has jealous issues...

        Okay back to been serious...I second Fretboard Magic -> NEITHER.
        It doesn't sound like you are that into either of them.
        I did that when I was young, chose a responsible guy that would make a good father.
        That led to ten years of dating/marriage hell. We have two lovely kids though and now divorced.
        So I wouldn't suggest picking a guy like your buying a commodity.

        Wait till you find some one you love. Who you can't wait to be with, be in contact with.
        Who has good qualities too, ofcourse.

        As for nationalities, I'd go with British

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          #5
          .... so I'm the only one who finds this thread mildly offensive?
          I thought of you and the years and all the sadness fell away from me - Pink Floyd

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            #6
            Originally posted by TwoThree View Post
            .... so I'm the only one who finds this thread mildly offensive?
            I'm not sure if I find it more hilarious or offensive.

            It sounds kinda like the OP is picking men like I pick a new computer or a phone

            "I've been considering getting a Samsung Space x293, which has Android 8622.6 but then the battery life is rather short, so I've also considered a Huawaii, which has a bigger screen and battery life, but I checked it out in the store and it was really heavy, which I don't like. Which one should I get?"

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              #7
              Originally posted by Dziubka View Post
              I'm not sure if I find it more hilarious or offensive.

              It sounds kinda like the OP is picking men like I pick a new computer or a phone

              "I've been considering getting a Samsung Space x293, which has Android 8622.6 but then the battery life is rather short, so I've also considered a Huawaii, which has a bigger screen and battery life, but I checked it out in the store and it was really heavy, which I don't like. Which one should I get?"
              LOL This!

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                #8
                Originally posted by TwoThree View Post
                .... so I'm the only one who finds this thread mildly offensive?
                I do. Also, They are not races but nationalities. If you want to have some fun with it at least talk about the men that are still in the world cup. Belgium is out. Brazil, Argentina, Holland, and Germany.

                I would seriously try to look at this from a cultural differences point of view and decide which culture you like best, but for me it would be about the actual person himself.
                "Remember not only to say the right thing in the right place, but far more difficult still, to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment. "
                Benjamin Franklin

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                  #9
                  Originally posted by Dziubka View Post
                  I'm not sure if I find it more hilarious or offensive.

                  It sounds kinda like the OP is picking men like I pick a new computer or a phone

                  "I've been considering getting a Samsung Space x293, which has Android 8622.6 but then the battery life is rather short, so I've also considered a Huawaii, which has a bigger screen and battery life, but I checked it out in the store and it was really heavy, which I don't like. Which one should I get?"


                  Originally posted by Hollandia View Post
                  I do. Also, They are not races but nationalities. If you want to have some fun with it at least talk about the men that are still in the world cup. Belgium is out. Brazil, Argentina, Holland, and Germany.

                  I would seriously try to look at this from a cultural differences point of view and decide which culture you like best, but for me it would be about the actual person himself.
                  In this case, OP should definitely date a Nigerian. Lots of money, you know.
                  I thought of you and the years and all the sadness fell away from me - Pink Floyd

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                    #10
                    Originally posted by TwoThree View Post



                    In this case, OP should definitely date a Nigerian. Lots of money, you know.
                    Only if he's a prince, though.

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                      #11
                      No wonder Brazillian guy has jealousy issues, if you date two men and has indicated you plan to choose only one, and doesn't even think he is handsome! I would be jealous, too! The Belgian guy has got no time (and possably communication skills) to get to know you, or you are just impatient because you are used to dating a guy with no job and unrealistically ammount of time to use on you. You sound like little girl playing house, or a person consiering a business transaction, not a grown, loving woman in two serious relationships. 6 months is a long time to be anybody's trial boyfriend. You are not into either of them, because you view them critically and you don't describe what you hope to give to them. Do you see yourself as making anyone of THEM happy?
                      I made love to him only twice, she thought and looked at the man laying asleep beside her. And yet still it is as if we have been together forever, as if he has always known my life, my soul, my body, my light, my pain
                      - Paulo Coelho, "Eleven minutes"



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                        #12
                        Originally posted by Dziubka View Post
                        I'm not sure if I find it more hilarious or offensive.

                        It sounds kinda like the OP is picking men like I pick a new computer or a phone

                        "I've been considering getting a Samsung Space x293, which has Android 8622.6 but then the battery life is rather short, so I've also considered a Huawaii, which has a bigger screen and battery life, but I checked it out in the store and it was really heavy, which I don't like. Which one should I get?"
                        Originally posted by TwoThree View Post




                        In this case, OP should definitely date a Nigerian. Lots of money, you know.
                        Originally posted by CynicalQuixotic View Post
                        Only if he's a prince, though.
                        LOL! Thanks, I needed this on a Monday morning
                        Our separation of each other is an optical illusion of consciousness. ~Albert Einstein

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                          #13
                          I didn't take it as such a nationality vs the other nationality. I just took it as the OP's simple method of allowing us to differentiate between the two different guys. But that's just me.
                          Together since: Feb 23rd 2005.
                          First met: June 13th 2006

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                            #14
                            Originally posted by BlueCat View Post
                            I didn't take it as such a nationality vs the other nationality. I just took it as the OP's simple method of allowing us to differentiate between the two different guys. But that's just me.
                            I disagree.
                            Judging on whether or not to date someone based on where they are from is a bit of a touchy subject with some of us. Thank Bloody God my SO did not look at me as an arrogant American woman and pass me over so blindly. It really should be about the people regardless of their background. I am similar in some ways to average Americans and very different in other ways and I believe this is the same for everyone to some extent.
                            "Remember not only to say the right thing in the right place, but far more difficult still, to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment. "
                            Benjamin Franklin

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                              #15
                              Originally posted by Hollandia View Post
                              Judging on whether or not to date someone based on where they are from is a bit of a touchy subject with some of us.
                              I understand that's a touchy subject, it's just not how I interpreted what the OP was saying.
                              Together since: Feb 23rd 2005.
                              First met: June 13th 2006

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