Hey everyone !
I am in need to just talk about my relationship, as I am going through some hard times with my girlfriend. We met about a year ago. She is from the US and I'm from Europe. The day I met her, I told her I had been thinking of studying in the US for a couple of years. Anyway, it was still a 3500 mile distance, and to this day she can't tell me why she kept talking to me that night. We went on to talk from a couple times a week to talking every day. I started sending videos and photos, and after a while, so did she. Then we moved on to Skype and FaceTiming and since then, we have seen each other through video calls every day, for the past 9 months. There were some days we didn't, because one of us couldn't do it, but we always tried finding time for each other. When I realized I was falling for her, I finally decided this would be the year I would actually complete my application to American universities and go through with it. We met in person in April 2014 ( I met her in august 2013 ). Everything went great, even though we didn't kiss until she said goodbye to me at the airport, but our chemistry was all there. When finally in May, I got accepted to the university I wanted to go to ( I had gotten accepted to some universities in the UK, but would rather go to the US ). We got very excited that we would finally be able to be together without me or her having to fly for 10 hours. And now, August 2014 I am living in the US, 35 miles from her. Even though I went through with it, it was very hard to get here. She is not an emotional person, she doesn't talk about her feelings often, and she has trust issues ( believe me, she does ). But I have learned to love her for who she is, no matter what. She says it herself, she's a difficult one, but I've always had the patience and care for her to be with her through the hardest times. I had to fight a lot, emotionally and mentally, to stand where I stand now. The thing is, now she's starting to show lack of interest in being with me. Even though she's 35 miles apart, our next date is in 2 weeks, and i don't know why she can't come see me before that. I do understand she has to have time for herself, but we've been apart for 1 year and all I want is to hug her. It's hard for me to understand this. On top of everything, she hasn't kissed me yet. I said I wouldn't do it, because I did it the last time and she didn't seem too comfortable with it, so I just told her I would wait. But it's been a while and she hasn't even shown any intention of doing it. My heart is starting to break. I didn't move for her, but I was expecting her to be more supportive and just be here for me. It didn't matter if I moved farther away or closer, I was counting on her to be by my side and help me through everything. She's been my best friend and accomplice. I don't know what to do, and she won't talk to me about it. I need a hug, I need a kiss, I need her. But she's not available. She continues to say she loves me, when I say it. But I'm afraid we just lost it. I continue to love her with all my heart, but I think she gave up a while ago. And it breaks my heart, that after being long distance for so much time successfully and finally being close, we just lost it.
I am in need to just talk about my relationship, as I am going through some hard times with my girlfriend. We met about a year ago. She is from the US and I'm from Europe. The day I met her, I told her I had been thinking of studying in the US for a couple of years. Anyway, it was still a 3500 mile distance, and to this day she can't tell me why she kept talking to me that night. We went on to talk from a couple times a week to talking every day. I started sending videos and photos, and after a while, so did she. Then we moved on to Skype and FaceTiming and since then, we have seen each other through video calls every day, for the past 9 months. There were some days we didn't, because one of us couldn't do it, but we always tried finding time for each other. When I realized I was falling for her, I finally decided this would be the year I would actually complete my application to American universities and go through with it. We met in person in April 2014 ( I met her in august 2013 ). Everything went great, even though we didn't kiss until she said goodbye to me at the airport, but our chemistry was all there. When finally in May, I got accepted to the university I wanted to go to ( I had gotten accepted to some universities in the UK, but would rather go to the US ). We got very excited that we would finally be able to be together without me or her having to fly for 10 hours. And now, August 2014 I am living in the US, 35 miles from her. Even though I went through with it, it was very hard to get here. She is not an emotional person, she doesn't talk about her feelings often, and she has trust issues ( believe me, she does ). But I have learned to love her for who she is, no matter what. She says it herself, she's a difficult one, but I've always had the patience and care for her to be with her through the hardest times. I had to fight a lot, emotionally and mentally, to stand where I stand now. The thing is, now she's starting to show lack of interest in being with me. Even though she's 35 miles apart, our next date is in 2 weeks, and i don't know why she can't come see me before that. I do understand she has to have time for herself, but we've been apart for 1 year and all I want is to hug her. It's hard for me to understand this. On top of everything, she hasn't kissed me yet. I said I wouldn't do it, because I did it the last time and she didn't seem too comfortable with it, so I just told her I would wait. But it's been a while and she hasn't even shown any intention of doing it. My heart is starting to break. I didn't move for her, but I was expecting her to be more supportive and just be here for me. It didn't matter if I moved farther away or closer, I was counting on her to be by my side and help me through everything. She's been my best friend and accomplice. I don't know what to do, and she won't talk to me about it. I need a hug, I need a kiss, I need her. But she's not available. She continues to say she loves me, when I say it. But I'm afraid we just lost it. I continue to love her with all my heart, but I think she gave up a while ago. And it breaks my heart, that after being long distance for so much time successfully and finally being close, we just lost it.
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