I know you are all going to know just what I mean when I say it's even harder when they are sick. My boyfriend has been ill for a little over a week now and I wish I was there to take care of him. I find these times the hardest and it makes me miss him even more.
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Yes, it's harder, but it may bring you even closer together when one of you is sick. You can take care of him from a distance too by talking to him on the phone. Just the sound of your voice will make him feel a little better. Maybe remind him to go and pick up some chicken noodle soup or some gatorade. It will make him feel looked after. My hunny does that for me and I often feel as if he's right here with me.
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When my SO gets sick and I am not there I describe to him how i would make him tea, or let him sleep in my lap, or how I would stroke his hair etc. I tell him he is beautiful even when he looks like a mess. I tell him over and over again poor you... (for some reason he likes that). We often Skype when he is sick, for a little while, and then I will tell him to go asleep. He will sleep with my voice in his ear.I made love to him only twice, she thought and looked at the man laying asleep beside her. And yet still it is as if we have been together forever, as if he has always known my life, my soul, my body, my light, my pain
- Paulo Coelho, "Eleven minutes"
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I always try to be reassuring and understanding its just how I think. My boyfriend was too sick to Skype but is getting better now. I missed him so much over this past week. We did speak on the phone but there is nothing more perfect thsn being able to play games and spend time with him (unless I am physically there of course but that just isn't possible right now)
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