I need an advice

[gcale]

I met my someone (I don't know how to call him) when he was in a mission trip in my country, so he went to the place that I was working and we inmediatily connected. It was a strong connection like I never felt before but I just ignore him because I don't know. We spend all the time together and when he gave me our first kiss I felt weak in my knees and I couldn't breath, I kissed some guys before but never, NEVER felt that way. He told me that he was falling for me so hard and I was too but I just couldn't accepted.

He only stayed a week but he gave money for my visa and he told me that wanted to be with me. But after he left all the things are so different. He told me that he doesn't want to be in a LDR because cause only pain but I was more that willing to make and effort and try. But then when we texted he sended to my short answers but when we talked in skype he was the cutest until a couple days ago, I worried so start calling him (I was suffocatting and needy I admit) but he ignores me like really bad and then I received a message that say that he needs a lot of space that he wants to be my friend and he loves me. I don't understand how one day wants me, next day don't. I'm saving money now for the ticket because I live in Centroamerica but I don't know how to act, what can I do. I don't want to lose that connection that I have. I mean when you face true love you just know, and I know.

[differentcountries]

He cant be with you right now. He is overwealmed by everything. He has feelings for you, and finds it hard to be away from you. It sounded like a breakup, but it could also mean he suggested a break

[gcale]

He is a nurse and I'm a doctor. He is going to graduate soon but I mean a text is easy to respond takes like less than 30 seconds. Do I should stop text? This is a torture! Thanks.

[R&R]

I met my someone (I don't know how to call him) when he was in a mission trip in my country, so he went to the place that I was working and we inmediatily connected. It was a strong connection like I never felt before but I just ignore him because I don't know. We spend all the time together and when he gave me our first kiss I felt weak in my knees and I couldn't breath, I kissed some guys before but never, NEVER felt that way. He told me that he was falling for me so hard and I was too but I just couldn't accepted.

He only stayed a week but he gave money for my visa and he told me that wanted to be with me. But after he left all the things are so different. He told me that he doesn't want to be in a LDR because cause only pain but I was more that willing to make and effort and try. But then when we texted he sended to my short answers but when we talked in skype he was the cutest until a couple days ago, I worried so start calling him (I was suffocatting and needy I admit) but he ignores me like really bad and then I received a message that say that he needs a lot of space that he wants to be my friend and he loves me. I don't understand how one day wants me, next day don't. I'm saving money now for the ticket because I live in Centroamerica but I don't know how to act, what can I do. I don't want to lose that connection that I have. I mean when you face true love you just know, and I know.

He has made it quite clear. Yes, he says he loves you but not that he is IN love with you and those are two very different things. He's not ready for it. He's told you he's not and he's giving you signs that he's not. When he left, he gave you money for the Visa but I think once he got home he has realized that he really isn't ready for this.

As hard as it may be, you have to understand where he is coming from and respect that he is just not ready and does not want a long distance relationship. It takes a lot for someone to tell you that they don't want a relationship - more so if they care about you because they know it will hurt you. However, if you keep pushing, he is going to end up resenting it and you may even lose the friendship. I understand you love him but love has to come from both parties as does making a relationship work. I think it's time for you to take a huge step back and realize this is not currently going to happen and start living your life accordingly.

[gcale]

He has made it quite clear. Yes, he says he loves you but not that he is IN love with you and those are two very different things. He's not ready for it. He's told you he's not and he's giving you signs that he's not. When he left, he gave you money for the Visa but I think once he got home he has realized that he really isn't ready for this.

As hard as it may be, you have to understand where he is coming from and respect that he is just not ready and does not want a long distance relationship. It takes a lot for someone to tell you that they don't want a relationship - more so if they care about you because they know it will hurt you. However, if you keep pushing, he is going to end up resenting it and you may even lose the friendship. I understand you love him but love has to come from both parties as does making a relationship work. I think it's time for you to take a huge step back and realize this is not currently going to happen and start living your life accordingly.

Hard to read but thank you.