This is my first post here.
abit about us, I'm danny, 23 from the uk and she is called cady and is 22 with a 3 year old daughter from the US
we have been friends for over a year we met while online gaming ( GTA 5 of all games to meet on), we discovered our feelings for each other and become boyfriend and girlfriend on the 8th December 2014, i was saying i love with in days and her within the week and we have been video calling each other every day since for at least 6 hours a day, we sleep on the phone together sometimes too.
we feel we comfortable with each other and want the same things in life, we love each other so much.
we had our first meeting a few weeks ago, i flew out to see her on the 30th April, and stayed till 16th May, we had the most amazing time, it was incredible spending time together with her and her daughter, she was everything i expected and so much more. we got engaged on the trip too.
ive not been a very out going person growing up and very shy, and experienced very little, i was always holding off till i found the right person. when i found that person i felt great, then we had the trip and i experienced everything i've been wanting for years with the most amazing person... and now i'm back i feel like my heart has been ripped out, i want to cry all the time, i have no appetite and throw up... happens more in the morning and at work, been sent home from work sick... i have too much thinking time at work and it plays on my mind alot... she is always on my mind.
i have alot of support at home, but its from people who dont understand fully i think
i get told to focus on the positives but its hard to do, they are starting to give tough love now
we have been looking into the next step of moving her here, which is what she wants.
i think it would be easier to go there on a k-1 visa and marry within 90 days but she would like to come here and my family wants her here
its scary looks like there are alot of hoops to jump, and i dont have all the requirements.
she is working but her parents taking alot of the money as she lives with them
i also living in my parents house, where she was meant to be staying but ive been told i have to own my own house
also at the end of an apprenticeship so i'm not earning alot and i will not hit the requirement for earnings to support them
its killing me that i wont be able to see them again for so long
i love her so much
abit about us, I'm danny, 23 from the uk and she is called cady and is 22 with a 3 year old daughter from the US
we have been friends for over a year we met while online gaming ( GTA 5 of all games to meet on), we discovered our feelings for each other and become boyfriend and girlfriend on the 8th December 2014, i was saying i love with in days and her within the week and we have been video calling each other every day since for at least 6 hours a day, we sleep on the phone together sometimes too.
we feel we comfortable with each other and want the same things in life, we love each other so much.
we had our first meeting a few weeks ago, i flew out to see her on the 30th April, and stayed till 16th May, we had the most amazing time, it was incredible spending time together with her and her daughter, she was everything i expected and so much more. we got engaged on the trip too.
ive not been a very out going person growing up and very shy, and experienced very little, i was always holding off till i found the right person. when i found that person i felt great, then we had the trip and i experienced everything i've been wanting for years with the most amazing person... and now i'm back i feel like my heart has been ripped out, i want to cry all the time, i have no appetite and throw up... happens more in the morning and at work, been sent home from work sick... i have too much thinking time at work and it plays on my mind alot... she is always on my mind.
i have alot of support at home, but its from people who dont understand fully i think
i get told to focus on the positives but its hard to do, they are starting to give tough love now
we have been looking into the next step of moving her here, which is what she wants.
i think it would be easier to go there on a k-1 visa and marry within 90 days but she would like to come here and my family wants her here
its scary looks like there are alot of hoops to jump, and i dont have all the requirements.
she is working but her parents taking alot of the money as she lives with them
i also living in my parents house, where she was meant to be staying but ive been told i have to own my own house
also at the end of an apprenticeship so i'm not earning alot and i will not hit the requirement for earnings to support them
its killing me that i wont be able to see them again for so long
i love her so much
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