Hey guys, I'm new here and I'm needing some help because I'm so confused with everything.
I'll try to be quick and summarize our story. We met when I was studying in the US. I had to go back home for visa reasons and we're completely in love. We've been dating for over an year. When I went back to Brazil, he went with me,met my family, and we took a small vacation time for us. He came back and those were the worst 2 months of my life(that was the only time we were apart so far). I was able to visit him for 4 months , and I'm currently at his place. I'll have to go home and finish school, and we're not sure when we'll be able to see each other again(I think we won't be able to until next Christmas or so).
I'm afraid we're not in the same page of the relationship. I love him so much I would change my whole life for him. I would marry him, and when I couple months ago he said my name with his last name and started talking about "what if we got married..." I freaked out and laughed nervously, and said that my name will sound really good one day. He brought the topic back another time and everything was basically the same, and then I was super happy for a while.
After all that, we've been arguing a lot when we go out with his friends cause he's always so miserable by my side (in his defense he says he's tired and all, or he doesn't like the place...), but it seems that when i was gone he was always having so much fun with them. And now I'm leaving and he already has plans for summer and it seems like it will be a lot of fun, again, when I'm gone.
I don't know if I'm just freaking out because I'm leaving and imagining things, or if we're really in different pages of the relationship right now what do u guys think?
I'll try to be quick and summarize our story. We met when I was studying in the US. I had to go back home for visa reasons and we're completely in love. We've been dating for over an year. When I went back to Brazil, he went with me,met my family, and we took a small vacation time for us. He came back and those were the worst 2 months of my life(that was the only time we were apart so far). I was able to visit him for 4 months , and I'm currently at his place. I'll have to go home and finish school, and we're not sure when we'll be able to see each other again(I think we won't be able to until next Christmas or so).
I'm afraid we're not in the same page of the relationship. I love him so much I would change my whole life for him. I would marry him, and when I couple months ago he said my name with his last name and started talking about "what if we got married..." I freaked out and laughed nervously, and said that my name will sound really good one day. He brought the topic back another time and everything was basically the same, and then I was super happy for a while.
After all that, we've been arguing a lot when we go out with his friends cause he's always so miserable by my side (in his defense he says he's tired and all, or he doesn't like the place...), but it seems that when i was gone he was always having so much fun with them. And now I'm leaving and he already has plans for summer and it seems like it will be a lot of fun, again, when I'm gone.
I don't know if I'm just freaking out because I'm leaving and imagining things, or if we're really in different pages of the relationship right now what do u guys think?
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