After two years, I admit you all were right with your comments back then!

[Carol]

Dear all,

I disappeared from the forum for a long time, and today I got to read the posts I made two years ago.

I am not sure if any of you, who gave me your advise back then, are still visiting the forum, but I have to admit you all were right.
I now understand competely that you tried to give me the best advise ever. Thus, to run away.
I have been able to see his behaviour was abusive and completely wrong, and the way I tried to defend him was kind of ridiculous.
I dare to say I am now wiser and I know that I should no longer accept it from anyone again.

I just thought I would let you know

Kind regards
Carol

Original post: https://members.lovingfromadistance....-from-cheating!

PS: and you were also right about the below post, he did NOT break up with me for my own sake

Original post: https://members.lovingfromadistance....or-my-own-sake

[ChloChlo]

I was not around back then, but after reading your messages I am so glad to hear that you have realized you deserve better treatment from a partner! Good for you. I hope you are in a much happier place!

[Miasmata]

It's never easy to get out of an abusive situation, and denial is a pretty normal reaction to outside input, sadly. I'm seriously glad you managed to make the right changes. You always deserve respectful and kind treatment!

[differentcountries]

I am happy to hear you are better!