We met in the airport 4 months ago
I am 18 and he is 22. I was travelling back from Romania to my home country, Kurdistan. I had a layover in Istanbuls airport for four hours. I sat at starbucks, waiting for my plane. He was there too, a few chairs away, I noticed him looking a few times. After 2 hours he came and sat next to me and I asked if I was Lebanese, from there we started talking and he had just come back from Sweden and is going back to the States for his studies, he is originally from Lebanon. we talked for two hours and clicked right away, there was so much to talk about, yet such little time. We had so many common interests such as travelling, I still remember every second of that day. He then asked me for my nr and I gave it to him, yet I had doubts if I wanted to actually give it to him, because I was not ready for any type of relationship.
Ever since the day we met, he texts every single day and we talk about what we are doing. When we are on the phone it feels as if there is no distance between us, I have never been so emotionally attached to someone this way, he cares a lot about me and listens to me a lot. It hurts me too, because I am not the type of girl who is emotionally dependant on someone, I have always been very independent and checking my whatsapp to see if he is messaging me is destroying me, even though he does text me everyday.
We arent in a relationship but it sure feels like one by the way he talks to me, he has said I love you a few times, but I was too scared to say anything so I would change the subject right away. Commitments and relationships have scared me because I dont want to get attached to someone too much and then get hurt. But with him I know he wont hurt me, but I dont know why I react the way I do. I care about him a lot and we have told each other things we dont tell anyone. He constantly texts me saying I miss you even if we have talked a few hours before that and he always tells me how smart, funny and amazing I am.
I told him I might be doing an internship during the summer in Spain and he said he wants to do one too and meet up, but the problem is he only has a summer vacation during august and I plan on doing my internship during June. It really bothered him that I do not want to change it. Honestly, I have always kept one thing in my head is to never base decisions on other people. I really want to see him but the timing is not right and I dont know what to do because I think I love him and it hurts that I cant be in his arms.
Should I meet up with him or wait for another opportunity.
Ever since the day we met, he texts every single day and we talk about what we are doing. When we are on the phone it feels as if there is no distance between us, I have never been so emotionally attached to someone this way, he cares a lot about me and listens to me a lot. It hurts me too, because I am not the type of girl who is emotionally dependant on someone, I have always been very independent and checking my whatsapp to see if he is messaging me is destroying me, even though he does text me everyday.
We arent in a relationship but it sure feels like one by the way he talks to me, he has said I love you a few times, but I was too scared to say anything so I would change the subject right away. Commitments and relationships have scared me because I dont want to get attached to someone too much and then get hurt. But with him I know he wont hurt me, but I dont know why I react the way I do. I care about him a lot and we have told each other things we dont tell anyone. He constantly texts me saying I miss you even if we have talked a few hours before that and he always tells me how smart, funny and amazing I am.
I told him I might be doing an internship during the summer in Spain and he said he wants to do one too and meet up, but the problem is he only has a summer vacation during august and I plan on doing my internship during June. It really bothered him that I do not want to change it. Honestly, I have always kept one thing in my head is to never base decisions on other people. I really want to see him but the timing is not right and I dont know what to do because I think I love him and it hurts that I cant be in his arms.
Should I meet up with him or wait for another opportunity.