ME=25 years soon, HER=28 years
Notice: "some dates and information might be wrong or is intentionally changed because I dont want anyone who knows us to know if they read this". Pay attention to every trait, characteristic of ME (hereinafter: "Ä") and my ex-long distance relationship girlfriend (hereinafter: "Ö").
Get ready guys, this is going to be a long one. :
First, a little about me ˝Ä", I am a guy from an western country called Croatia). I visit quite renown faculty and my vision is to one day be a successful person, althought I am a little lazy, I try my best and consider myself to have above average Intelligence Quotient (hereinafter "IQ") but lack little Emotional Quotient (hereinafter "EQ"). Nevertheless I have a wide circle of friends, one of my best friends is actually a girl (hereinafter "best friend G"). My personality type is ESFP.
I think I am not bad looking and also being told by girls (although my self esteem has been hit a little yesterday) and had many interesting relationships and hookups in the past. I kissed with a girl when I was in the kindergarten and all until third class we were showing "love" to eachother, if you can call it that when you are 6-9 years old, even our teacher in kindergarten and later elementary school admired us. I still have her love letters in a box in my basement (I can show if it will interest you - the funniest one lists: "I am sending you 100000000...and the list goes on, KISSES). After I was too shy to be seen with her in public, we "broke up" at the end of third grade at age 9 or so.
Since then and until 17 I didnt have any hookups except a blowjob once and a few 5-7 number girls (number as in pretty from 1 to 10) chasing me. I always refused to go in a relationship if girl wasnt pretty and intelligent because when I go into a relationship, I tend to be serious. I grow emotions quickly, too quickly. I consider myself to be quite passionate (not casa nova passionate, but sweet passionate). At the age of 17 I finally met this gorgeous girl, who was smart and extremely appealing to my eyes and I would do anything for her, just settle for her no matter what. Normally, she dumped me when I was 19 because I wasnt paying much attention to her and took her for "granted". I really suffered\hurt from that breakup (only today I know why, because I was asking myself all these questions, what did she have in plan after breakup, was she seeing someone, I kept checking her FB for like a week or two and it only made pain worse every day). It took me like to 2 months to stop hurting and another 4 to heal most of the wound (I dont know if I ever told this to Ö) and nowadays its just an experience, which made me grow and see what I did wrong.
I started going to the gym after that breakup and became quite fit. When I was fit I had many girls around me and that were probably most interesting two years for me. So from 19 to 22 I had 4 girls. The first one I had was 4 years younger when I was 19 but eventually didnt fall for me and the last one being 7 years older than me, I was 21 at time. I was talking to her a lot, she was pretty, smart (having admirable job) and she seduced me, eventhough she had a boyfriend and got me drunk one night and we had sex. I dont like to break moral standards but I realized we are just people. All in all, every girl I ever was with, approached me herself and I never really picked up girls or maybe I never managed or was good at picking up a girls myself and thats what I have to discuss as it might have an important role in the story (pay attention to this part please).
I make many new friendship, bond relationships, even able to hook up if I try. I have great colleagues at work and am looking forward to one day be working in the team. I used to go to the gym a lot and was quite musculine but stopped, since my LDR started becoming serious (did the same in previous relationship-becoming fatter). However, what I lacked in my first relationship, I made up in this one. It was LDR but I started planning my money, trips and how to eventually actually live together because I read a lot about LDR and they cant work without having an end goal together.
Second, a little about my now ex long distance relationship girlfriend "Ö"). She is Thai and little lazy, but still works hard to succeed and she will, shes one of the prettiest people Ive seen in my life and very intelligent and resourceful! (I had to give out this Thai information since it might be an imporant information, I heard that Thai women are very loyal). We met over some site when I was looking to "sext" with some girls in october 2015 if i remember correctly or maybe november (I love sexting, It makes me wild when a girl is flirtatious and tries to seduce me). When we first spoke and seen eachother she said I didnt attract her very much but loved the way I spoke and that i charmed her, so she gave me her contacts. I transferred chat over to skype and we started chatting for about a month, maybe little less.
We talked on skype that month every day for like 6 hours/day, probably even more but we were more like getting to know eachother. I was a alone but as the same time I wasnt, I felt like I am starting to develop a feelings for a partner that will be with me in good or bad. We sleep with our computer open so we could see eachother. We talked a lot, I tried to make her say im hot but she always said that im cute (but I never really minded that, since I am cute) and interesting to talk to.
Then she went on the trip with her ex lover (call him "person 1") and had sex with. I told her I wanna get serious with her or I rather cut contact if she has no intention of being serious. She herself then proposed the idea that she is the right person for Long distance relationship and that we should try. She said she is sorry but that she just couldnt resist person 1 and that he is only a lover for her with whom she can travel. I said its ok if she is serious and that we should pursue, we have been talking a lot, she was always available on facetime or skype, we live in different time zones and she likes going to bed very late, so we kinda sleep at the same time and also go to bed at mostly same time.
Notice: "some dates and information might be wrong or is intentionally changed because I dont want anyone who knows us to know if they read this". Pay attention to every trait, characteristic of ME (hereinafter: "Ä") and my ex-long distance relationship girlfriend (hereinafter: "Ö").
Get ready guys, this is going to be a long one. :
First, a little about me ˝Ä", I am a guy from an western country called Croatia). I visit quite renown faculty and my vision is to one day be a successful person, althought I am a little lazy, I try my best and consider myself to have above average Intelligence Quotient (hereinafter "IQ") but lack little Emotional Quotient (hereinafter "EQ"). Nevertheless I have a wide circle of friends, one of my best friends is actually a girl (hereinafter "best friend G"). My personality type is ESFP.
I think I am not bad looking and also being told by girls (although my self esteem has been hit a little yesterday) and had many interesting relationships and hookups in the past. I kissed with a girl when I was in the kindergarten and all until third class we were showing "love" to eachother, if you can call it that when you are 6-9 years old, even our teacher in kindergarten and later elementary school admired us. I still have her love letters in a box in my basement (I can show if it will interest you - the funniest one lists: "I am sending you 100000000...and the list goes on, KISSES). After I was too shy to be seen with her in public, we "broke up" at the end of third grade at age 9 or so.
Since then and until 17 I didnt have any hookups except a blowjob once and a few 5-7 number girls (number as in pretty from 1 to 10) chasing me. I always refused to go in a relationship if girl wasnt pretty and intelligent because when I go into a relationship, I tend to be serious. I grow emotions quickly, too quickly. I consider myself to be quite passionate (not casa nova passionate, but sweet passionate). At the age of 17 I finally met this gorgeous girl, who was smart and extremely appealing to my eyes and I would do anything for her, just settle for her no matter what. Normally, she dumped me when I was 19 because I wasnt paying much attention to her and took her for "granted". I really suffered\hurt from that breakup (only today I know why, because I was asking myself all these questions, what did she have in plan after breakup, was she seeing someone, I kept checking her FB for like a week or two and it only made pain worse every day). It took me like to 2 months to stop hurting and another 4 to heal most of the wound (I dont know if I ever told this to Ö) and nowadays its just an experience, which made me grow and see what I did wrong.
I started going to the gym after that breakup and became quite fit. When I was fit I had many girls around me and that were probably most interesting two years for me. So from 19 to 22 I had 4 girls. The first one I had was 4 years younger when I was 19 but eventually didnt fall for me and the last one being 7 years older than me, I was 21 at time. I was talking to her a lot, she was pretty, smart (having admirable job) and she seduced me, eventhough she had a boyfriend and got me drunk one night and we had sex. I dont like to break moral standards but I realized we are just people. All in all, every girl I ever was with, approached me herself and I never really picked up girls or maybe I never managed or was good at picking up a girls myself and thats what I have to discuss as it might have an important role in the story (pay attention to this part please).
I make many new friendship, bond relationships, even able to hook up if I try. I have great colleagues at work and am looking forward to one day be working in the team. I used to go to the gym a lot and was quite musculine but stopped, since my LDR started becoming serious (did the same in previous relationship-becoming fatter). However, what I lacked in my first relationship, I made up in this one. It was LDR but I started planning my money, trips and how to eventually actually live together because I read a lot about LDR and they cant work without having an end goal together.
Second, a little about my now ex long distance relationship girlfriend "Ö"). She is Thai and little lazy, but still works hard to succeed and she will, shes one of the prettiest people Ive seen in my life and very intelligent and resourceful! (I had to give out this Thai information since it might be an imporant information, I heard that Thai women are very loyal). We met over some site when I was looking to "sext" with some girls in october 2015 if i remember correctly or maybe november (I love sexting, It makes me wild when a girl is flirtatious and tries to seduce me). When we first spoke and seen eachother she said I didnt attract her very much but loved the way I spoke and that i charmed her, so she gave me her contacts. I transferred chat over to skype and we started chatting for about a month, maybe little less.
We talked on skype that month every day for like 6 hours/day, probably even more but we were more like getting to know eachother. I was a alone but as the same time I wasnt, I felt like I am starting to develop a feelings for a partner that will be with me in good or bad. We sleep with our computer open so we could see eachother. We talked a lot, I tried to make her say im hot but she always said that im cute (but I never really minded that, since I am cute) and interesting to talk to.
Then she went on the trip with her ex lover (call him "person 1") and had sex with. I told her I wanna get serious with her or I rather cut contact if she has no intention of being serious. She herself then proposed the idea that she is the right person for Long distance relationship and that we should try. She said she is sorry but that she just couldnt resist person 1 and that he is only a lover for her with whom she can travel. I said its ok if she is serious and that we should pursue, we have been talking a lot, she was always available on facetime or skype, we live in different time zones and she likes going to bed very late, so we kinda sleep at the same time and also go to bed at mostly same time.
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