Hi,
We've been on an on and off relationship and on top of that, it's a long distance. We've both hurt each other in the past, once. But now it seems like whenever we talk or feel like we're in a good place, at least for me, the insecurity of him still seeing or talking with that girl comes into my head. And for him, he doesn't want to get too serious. I'm not sure exactly the reason, but maybe because I've left him before because I got scared (not for another guy).
How do we gain our trust back? When ever I try to talk about these issues, he completely shuts down, and stops talking to me all together. What is a good way to communicate something like this?
We've been on an on and off relationship and on top of that, it's a long distance. We've both hurt each other in the past, once. But now it seems like whenever we talk or feel like we're in a good place, at least for me, the insecurity of him still seeing or talking with that girl comes into my head. And for him, he doesn't want to get too serious. I'm not sure exactly the reason, but maybe because I've left him before because I got scared (not for another guy).
How do we gain our trust back? When ever I try to talk about these issues, he completely shuts down, and stops talking to me all together. What is a good way to communicate something like this?
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