Hey everyone,
Maybe this isn't the right place to post this, but I got an email reminder about LFAD and thought I'd check in...
I am still hurting from the loss of my relationship which ended in early June. He lives in Iceland, I live in Canada....
I had been there twice from Oct - Feb, had invited him to come visit me in Toronto (he said he would love to and told me end of may he wanted to come in July or August), and had a trip planned to stay with him from June 4-21st in Reykjavik.
He broke my heart when he told me end of May that he was seeing someone else, and that I couldn't stay with him any more. I had only booked the flight on May 1st.
This has been a really tough relationship for me to get over... I find myself pining for him and wishing everything was different. I had been working on getting my British Passport (so I could live and work in Iceland/Europe), which I now have. I was starting to think about moving to Iceland so I could be with him. I had planned to talk about all this stuff in person with him in June on my visit, but he dumped me before then.
In the breakup and just after, I admitted to him that I had been thinking about moving there... he told me things like "that would have been too big of a step for me", "there's nothing here for you", and "I have a shitty job and shitty life" and "you shouldn't give up what you have going in Toronto for me" and he said of himself, "I'm a high school dropout with a drug and alcohol problem."
I miss him and think of him almost every day though :-( I wish things were different... today is my one year anniversary of the first day I arrived in Iceland, last Oct.
Maybe this isn't the right place to post this, but I got an email reminder about LFAD and thought I'd check in...
I am still hurting from the loss of my relationship which ended in early June. He lives in Iceland, I live in Canada....
I had been there twice from Oct - Feb, had invited him to come visit me in Toronto (he said he would love to and told me end of may he wanted to come in July or August), and had a trip planned to stay with him from June 4-21st in Reykjavik.
He broke my heart when he told me end of May that he was seeing someone else, and that I couldn't stay with him any more. I had only booked the flight on May 1st.
This has been a really tough relationship for me to get over... I find myself pining for him and wishing everything was different. I had been working on getting my British Passport (so I could live and work in Iceland/Europe), which I now have. I was starting to think about moving to Iceland so I could be with him. I had planned to talk about all this stuff in person with him in June on my visit, but he dumped me before then.
In the breakup and just after, I admitted to him that I had been thinking about moving there... he told me things like "that would have been too big of a step for me", "there's nothing here for you", and "I have a shitty job and shitty life" and "you shouldn't give up what you have going in Toronto for me" and he said of himself, "I'm a high school dropout with a drug and alcohol problem."
I miss him and think of him almost every day though :-( I wish things were different... today is my one year anniversary of the first day I arrived in Iceland, last Oct.
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