Hello there, thank you for Reading me I really need some advice.
So, this week was our second-year anniversary. I don’t even know how time went by so fast. Hess sooooo faraway I don’t even know how we have made it work this long.
I was excited about being together for this long so I put a little care box for him to receive on the day, a shirt I got him as a present, a letter and some pictures.
And it has been really hard cause economically I’m not that good. I’m working and studying and I can barely afford my own things and doing this requires lots of planning and saving cause the international shipping costs are off the charts expensive! Yet I do it, now and I did on his birthday a few months ago cause I love him.
The thing is…he did not send me anything! He barely even acknowledged the day. He only said…and I quote “Happy anniversary baby”
That’s it! Nothing else, not even a sweet voice note or a longer text…nothing. He knew the date was important to me cause I told him about 2 months ago, then I reminded him a few weeks ago and then about a week before hand DHL told him he had a package on the way.
Am I so wrong to expect a lil something?! Maybe some flowers? A letter even…just something more than a 3-word message?!?!?!
I talked to him about it and he said he’s sorry and that “he cannot read my mind”. We almost got into a fight over this. I explained in the sweetest, most comprehensive tone I had that he did not have to read my mind, that I told him several times and that I need this little detail to survive the distance, to get from one date to another.
At the end he said he was sorry and that he understands and he will try to be better.
But even so I can’t help but to feel sadden by the whole thing. I feel like I try so hard to make this last, to keep us going. Let it be noted that money is absolutely no problem for him. My income is barely 5% of his and I survive on it. I hoped for something, just flowers, a romantic gesture.
Am I so wrong to want more?
So, this week was our second-year anniversary. I don’t even know how time went by so fast. Hess sooooo faraway I don’t even know how we have made it work this long.
I was excited about being together for this long so I put a little care box for him to receive on the day, a shirt I got him as a present, a letter and some pictures.
And it has been really hard cause economically I’m not that good. I’m working and studying and I can barely afford my own things and doing this requires lots of planning and saving cause the international shipping costs are off the charts expensive! Yet I do it, now and I did on his birthday a few months ago cause I love him.
The thing is…he did not send me anything! He barely even acknowledged the day. He only said…and I quote “Happy anniversary baby”
That’s it! Nothing else, not even a sweet voice note or a longer text…nothing. He knew the date was important to me cause I told him about 2 months ago, then I reminded him a few weeks ago and then about a week before hand DHL told him he had a package on the way.
Am I so wrong to expect a lil something?! Maybe some flowers? A letter even…just something more than a 3-word message?!?!?!
I talked to him about it and he said he’s sorry and that “he cannot read my mind”. We almost got into a fight over this. I explained in the sweetest, most comprehensive tone I had that he did not have to read my mind, that I told him several times and that I need this little detail to survive the distance, to get from one date to another.
At the end he said he was sorry and that he understands and he will try to be better.
But even so I can’t help but to feel sadden by the whole thing. I feel like I try so hard to make this last, to keep us going. Let it be noted that money is absolutely no problem for him. My income is barely 5% of his and I survive on it. I hoped for something, just flowers, a romantic gesture.
Am I so wrong to want more?
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