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    I don't feel understood by my SO

    We text and Skype a lot, and, in general, the conversations are pleasant. However, when I tell her about my struggles, plans and aspirations, I sometimes feel like talking to a wall. I say a lot, but she just gives me a random and not very related to how I feel. Whenever I tell her I don't feel understood, she gets offended. I think I shouldn't tell her any of this bullshit at all from time to time, since explaining myself to her doesn't seem to help me much. Is there anything that can be done in such a situation?

    #2
    What was her response when you told her that you don't feel understood? Why was she offended?

    It seems like it would be difficult to talk to someone who didn't ever seem like they listened.

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      #3
      Like hmrambling i would like to know why she felt offended and what she said about it.

      How old are you both ?
      Do you both have the same goal in this LDR ?
      Where do you both live ? Different or same country ?
      Does she talk about her problems to you in search of comfort ?

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