So I'm in a long distance relationship with a man from El Salvador. We've been together for a little over a year now and we are very committed to each other to the point of actually being engaged. We are planning to meet next year and as long as things go well we without a doubt will continue the process of getting him moved to the US.
He has told two of his sisters, his mother, and most recently, his father; basically everyone in his family that is important to tell. So far, I have only told my father who is not exactly a huge part of my life. I don't have many people I have to tell, but my biggest concern is my mother.
My mother is the type who is very controlling and is not afraid to voice her opinion. And I know almost without a doubt that she will freak out when I tell her. And here's the real kicker: I was in a long distance relationship previously, with a guy who lived a few states away from me. And it went very, very poorly. After we met in person, things went south quickly.
So this is what I want advice on: What do I tell her? How do I tell her? When do I tell her? My fiancé is a very wonderful and accomplished man but he IS from another country. I just don't know how to word everything properly to decrease the explosion as much as possible.
He has told two of his sisters, his mother, and most recently, his father; basically everyone in his family that is important to tell. So far, I have only told my father who is not exactly a huge part of my life. I don't have many people I have to tell, but my biggest concern is my mother.
My mother is the type who is very controlling and is not afraid to voice her opinion. And I know almost without a doubt that she will freak out when I tell her. And here's the real kicker: I was in a long distance relationship previously, with a guy who lived a few states away from me. And it went very, very poorly. After we met in person, things went south quickly.
So this is what I want advice on: What do I tell her? How do I tell her? When do I tell her? My fiancé is a very wonderful and accomplished man but he IS from another country. I just don't know how to word everything properly to decrease the explosion as much as possible.
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