Stressed out, advice needed.
Hi everybody
So this is the current situation.
I live in Belgium and my SO lives in Madrid for about 11 years now. He's Brasilian and needs to renewal his passport and residence documents. This has never been a problem untill now. He has work at the moment but not a permanent contract and that is causing the problem to renewal his documents.
So now he's in a process of getting the right documents, evidence of income, etc. to get a new passport. A the moment he is experiencing some problems at work and is afraid to loose his job.
He asked me, yesterday, if it's okay to come to Belgium if everything goes wrong there. But I don't know what to say to him. First of all I am not ready to close the distance at all, if he doesn't have any papers he can't get work here so doesn't have an income and I am not able / willing to maintain both of us, marry him is also no option for me because we have been together for 6 months now, way toooooo early!
Don't get me wrong, I love him and I care for him but i also have to be rational and don't decide to do things that I maybe will regret.
So if he doesn't have a job, doesn't get his passport, he has to go back to Brasil.
Any advice or people with in a similar situation?
So this is the current situation.
I live in Belgium and my SO lives in Madrid for about 11 years now. He's Brasilian and needs to renewal his passport and residence documents. This has never been a problem untill now. He has work at the moment but not a permanent contract and that is causing the problem to renewal his documents.
So now he's in a process of getting the right documents, evidence of income, etc. to get a new passport. A the moment he is experiencing some problems at work and is afraid to loose his job.
He asked me, yesterday, if it's okay to come to Belgium if everything goes wrong there. But I don't know what to say to him. First of all I am not ready to close the distance at all, if he doesn't have any papers he can't get work here so doesn't have an income and I am not able / willing to maintain both of us, marry him is also no option for me because we have been together for 6 months now, way toooooo early!
Don't get me wrong, I love him and I care for him but i also have to be rational and don't decide to do things that I maybe will regret.
So if he doesn't have a job, doesn't get his passport, he has to go back to Brasil.
Any advice or people with in a similar situation?
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