My fiance is in a very low place mentally right now, and has no support or insurance. Should I fly out and see him asap, even though I already have a flight booked for Christmas Eve? I am genuinely worried for his safety, but it would potentially cause financial issues for me to go away before then. I just don't want him to be alone, because I know how he feels and I want to help him.
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Do you know any of his friends you could call to go check up on him?
Has he tried a support help line? When you say it’ll cause financial issues, will it stop your Christmas visit? How high and dry will it leave you financially? If you have absolutely no one else you can ask closer to him then I’d go if it wasn’t going to leave me with nothing left money wise. You need to have some money I reserve in case you need it. Is there a way he can fly to you, if flights the other way are cheaper?
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No, there aren't any nearby friends.
Support lines are hit and miss, and I don't honestly know how much talking to a stranger will do for him if he did.
It wouldn't stop my Christmas visit in theory, depending on how long I went out there for. It will probably replace the whole thing.
If I'm out of state for more than 2 weeks, they stop my payments, but I should hopefully be able to get them restarted when I return, as long as I have my travel itinerary.
Depending on how much I take out with me, and how long I stay, I would have some money back home.
He can't fly to me as he doesn't have a passport. That's on the to do list for next year, but even then there's a few other things that would need to be sorted before that too.
The whole situation is a logistical nightmare from all angles, but I worry about him being alone and I do want to be there with him.
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